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<blockquote data-quote="ABS" data-source="post: 502979" data-attributes="member: 13718"><p><strong>buddy<span style="color: #333333">, </span></strong></p><p><span style="color: #333333">I just saw your response and I am so grateful I'm not the only one that has thought about smacking the **** out of their child. It sounds horrible and it is but there have been more than one time when I've told her to go to her room because I was about to lose it, she refused and I had to literally run away from her or else the police would need to be called. It's hard to wrap your mind around the fact that this is a type of disability. My brother has many birth defects and physical disabilities and those, in a way, are almost easier. You know what you're dealing with, can understand it and people "see" that there's something wrong. With my daughter they just automatically assume we're failing at parenting and to be honest, there are many times I doubt our parenting abilities as well. </span></p><p><span style="color: #333333"></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333">With regards to the expulsion and the IEP, it feels like there isn't much communication between those doing the disciplining and those with special education. We have a meeting that brings both groups together on the 14th so I'm hoping we'll get more understanding there. I can understand how its hard for the assistance principal (the one threatening expulsion) to understand that our daughter isn't just a bad kid because I struggle with it too. Oh and they did do a specific test with regards to the sound/sensory issues. She doesn't have issues with touch/taste but any sound or sight of something repetitive sends her spiraling.</span></p><p><span style="color: #333333"></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333">If I might ask, how do you punish/reward? We try and pick our battles but we try and be firm with regards to her acting violently towards other and the bullying (she sent a boy home in tears after weeks of her bullying him about his sexual orientation! I have many friends who are gay and she has been raised around them so that was a complete shock). We haven't found any punishment that deters her behavior nor any rewards that inspire her. </span></p><p><span style="color: #333333"></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ABS, post: 502979, member: 13718"] [B]buddy[COLOR=#333333], [/COLOR][/B] [COLOR=#333333]I just saw your response and I am so grateful I'm not the only one that has thought about smacking the **** out of their child. It sounds horrible and it is but there have been more than one time when I've told her to go to her room because I was about to lose it, she refused and I had to literally run away from her or else the police would need to be called. It's hard to wrap your mind around the fact that this is a type of disability. My brother has many birth defects and physical disabilities and those, in a way, are almost easier. You know what you're dealing with, can understand it and people "see" that there's something wrong. With my daughter they just automatically assume we're failing at parenting and to be honest, there are many times I doubt our parenting abilities as well. With regards to the expulsion and the IEP, it feels like there isn't much communication between those doing the disciplining and those with special education. We have a meeting that brings both groups together on the 14th so I'm hoping we'll get more understanding there. I can understand how its hard for the assistance principal (the one threatening expulsion) to understand that our daughter isn't just a bad kid because I struggle with it too. Oh and they did do a specific test with regards to the sound/sensory issues. She doesn't have issues with touch/taste but any sound or sight of something repetitive sends her spiraling. If I might ask, how do you punish/reward? We try and pick our battles but we try and be firm with regards to her acting violently towards other and the bullying (she sent a boy home in tears after weeks of her bullying him about his sexual orientation! I have many friends who are gay and she has been raised around them so that was a complete shock). We haven't found any punishment that deters her behavior nor any rewards that inspire her. [/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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