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<blockquote data-quote="mazdamama" data-source="post: 502989" data-attributes="member: 12227"><p>You have gotten some great advice already from the wonderful women here but I did want to add that when my 11yr old son began puberty things got ALOT WORSE. At her age I can only assume that she is also going through puberty/ Most likely has some reactive attachement disorder in there also. These so called mothers that leave their children at early ages don't realize (or don't care) that babies learn from the day they are born. They are aware of what is going on and it gets put in a part of their brain and stays there until they have the words to go with the action they recall. My son is currently in a residential treatment center and getting the help he needs to get over the feelings of anger and depression that bio mom had tried to drown him at an early age. He was less then 18 months old when it happened and I was not aware of it. At age 3 I started having anger problems with him and when I asked who he was so mad at he said "Mommy, do you remember Mama Rae?" and I told him I did ...he then said "she scare me so bad mommy, she hold my head under the water in the bathtub". I simply told him she was wrong to do that but took him in to two different therapists to find out if his memory at such a young age could be accurate. They both used play theraphy with him and said he was recalling an event that had happened before he had the words for it. Along with his other diagnosis's he has PTSD because of it. She later admitted to me in a letter that she had done this as well as some other things that she would not tell me.</p><p></p><p>Something is going on and you need the right diagnosis to get her the help she needs but I did want to bring the puberty issue up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mazdamama, post: 502989, member: 12227"] You have gotten some great advice already from the wonderful women here but I did want to add that when my 11yr old son began puberty things got ALOT WORSE. At her age I can only assume that she is also going through puberty/ Most likely has some reactive attachement disorder in there also. These so called mothers that leave their children at early ages don't realize (or don't care) that babies learn from the day they are born. They are aware of what is going on and it gets put in a part of their brain and stays there until they have the words to go with the action they recall. My son is currently in a residential treatment center and getting the help he needs to get over the feelings of anger and depression that bio mom had tried to drown him at an early age. He was less then 18 months old when it happened and I was not aware of it. At age 3 I started having anger problems with him and when I asked who he was so mad at he said "Mommy, do you remember Mama Rae?" and I told him I did ...he then said "she scare me so bad mommy, she hold my head under the water in the bathtub". I simply told him she was wrong to do that but took him in to two different therapists to find out if his memory at such a young age could be accurate. They both used play theraphy with him and said he was recalling an event that had happened before he had the words for it. Along with his other diagnosis's he has PTSD because of it. She later admitted to me in a letter that she had done this as well as some other things that she would not tell me. Something is going on and you need the right diagnosis to get her the help she needs but I did want to bring the puberty issue up. [/QUOTE]
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