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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 434728" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>burnt out - </p><p> </p><p>The fact that a 22 year old man with children placed HIS burdens on an already 'burnt out' Mother is shameful. HOW DARE HE - come to you and ask YOU to do MORE for HIM? Where do HIS repsonsibilities lie for his own children? Where is HIS RESPECT for his own already OVER BURDENED Mother and her three children struggling to get by? He's the one that should feel BAD. </p><p> </p><p>You know what? You're too good a person to have the kind of people around you that you do. The ones that are making you feel bad for NOT taking him in? THEY should walk a mile in YOUR shoes. THEY should offer HIM and his two kids a room for a month - GRATIS. Let's see where THEIR Charity begins...They want to point a finger at you? Wonderful - ANYONE of them that opened their mouth to you while you have disabled children and an already over-burneded home - I'd turn right around to them and say "WELL THEN YOU TAKE HIM IN SAY FOR TWO WEEKS?" and when they say "He's not my son! He's yours" I'd say "That's RIGHt - that's exactly right and it would DO YOU GOOD to keep YOUR nose out of OUR families business unless you are willing to PUT YOUR NOSE IN OUR FAMILY BUSINESS AND TAKE MY FAMILY INTO YOUR FAMILY SAY FOR A MONTH OR TWO and make it your business - other than that? SHUT IT!" </p><p> </p><p>Honestly! Anyone that looks at you and makes THOSE kinds of judgements? I'd dump them as "friends" so fast -----they'd still be spinning like dredles by Hanukka. Or like tops on Christmas - take your Seasonal pick. </p><p> </p><p>You have done NOTHING wrong. At 22 - with TWO kids? He had to have SOME idea what he was doing - HE fathered TWO children - one child could have been an accident - but TWO? No maam. He made his chioces and now he needs to step up to the plate and make a living, and a way for HIS family. Maybe not allowing him to stay with you IS the best thing you could have ever done for him AND his kids. Sometimes it takes situations like this for guys to grow up quick, fast and in a hurry - and again ----This is NOT your problem and anyone that says it is? Is a nincompoop. </p><p> </p><p>YOU are a good Mom - And you can be PROUD of yourself for what you didn't do - and what you DID do - AMEN </p><p>Hugs & Love</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 434728, member: 4964"] burnt out - The fact that a 22 year old man with children placed HIS burdens on an already 'burnt out' Mother is shameful. HOW DARE HE - come to you and ask YOU to do MORE for HIM? Where do HIS repsonsibilities lie for his own children? Where is HIS RESPECT for his own already OVER BURDENED Mother and her three children struggling to get by? He's the one that should feel BAD. You know what? You're too good a person to have the kind of people around you that you do. The ones that are making you feel bad for NOT taking him in? THEY should walk a mile in YOUR shoes. THEY should offer HIM and his two kids a room for a month - GRATIS. Let's see where THEIR Charity begins...They want to point a finger at you? Wonderful - ANYONE of them that opened their mouth to you while you have disabled children and an already over-burneded home - I'd turn right around to them and say "WELL THEN YOU TAKE HIM IN SAY FOR TWO WEEKS?" and when they say "He's not my son! He's yours" I'd say "That's RIGHt - that's exactly right and it would DO YOU GOOD to keep YOUR nose out of OUR families business unless you are willing to PUT YOUR NOSE IN OUR FAMILY BUSINESS AND TAKE MY FAMILY INTO YOUR FAMILY SAY FOR A MONTH OR TWO and make it your business - other than that? SHUT IT!" Honestly! Anyone that looks at you and makes THOSE kinds of judgements? I'd dump them as "friends" so fast -----they'd still be spinning like dredles by Hanukka. Or like tops on Christmas - take your Seasonal pick. You have done NOTHING wrong. At 22 - with TWO kids? He had to have SOME idea what he was doing - HE fathered TWO children - one child could have been an accident - but TWO? No maam. He made his chioces and now he needs to step up to the plate and make a living, and a way for HIS family. Maybe not allowing him to stay with you IS the best thing you could have ever done for him AND his kids. Sometimes it takes situations like this for guys to grow up quick, fast and in a hurry - and again ----This is NOT your problem and anyone that says it is? Is a nincompoop. YOU are a good Mom - And you can be PROUD of yourself for what you didn't do - and what you DID do - AMEN Hugs & Love Star [/QUOTE]
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