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<blockquote data-quote="burnt out" data-source="post: 434736" data-attributes="member: 12122"><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">i'm a crying mess and I'm just not sure it really is the right thing? One things is I have ripped his heart out and if he came now he would make my life hell the moment something went wrong but again because I have done this to him. I love this kid even though I spent a few years where I hated him. Then I started to see that what he has is a disability and things were a little better. He has social problems and some autism as well as Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). he really believes that this is his only hope of being with his girls again. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'"> he said to me "you always do his you all ways let me down when i need you the most" </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">that was also what he abused me bout just weeks ago, my partner and i got together when my son was 3yrs old. we battled it out in the courts and battled his father for years until his father found himself a new wife. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">We had my son in therapy and found out that my sons father was telling him to plan to run away... anyway we had years of hell, husband wanted to move to where we are now its tippled our income... we left my son with his father at 12 Is where he wanted to be. He didnt want to come with us as he had friends at school, of cause that didnt last long for him. then he was screaming at me how we abandoned him, when he was going through the worst time in his life, teenage years... oh my goodness how he went on and on how I took his sister away (he had one sister down there as his dad had a daughter before we were together, I was a step mum at 18) and took myself away his mother.... I remember it different but listened to what he had to said and when he ranted and raced for an hour abusing me for the same stuff I said I was going, he screamed for me not to hang up but he had nothing more to add so I hung up. He had just lost his girls that was the only reason I sat there for that long while he cried and screamed.... I gave him that only for that reason and I defended myself. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">For the last few months since he is with his sister I have coped abuse, from his sister going on that I was a terrible step mother making her fold clothes and wash dishes. To be honest I cant remember to much, I was a pretty messed up kid growing up in an abusive house. My sons father was 7yrs older than me, I was a child and taken advantage of by him, that is how I see it.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">I look at my daughter 17yrs and cant imagine her pregnant with a step child. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">Anyway the guilt is still so bad. What if he does something to himself and I hate to inflicked so much pain onto him, he can hardly cope. </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="burnt out, post: 434736, member: 12122"] [FONT=Tahoma]i'm a crying mess and I'm just not sure it really is the right thing? One things is I have ripped his heart out and if he came now he would make my life hell the moment something went wrong but again because I have done this to him. I love this kid even though I spent a few years where I hated him. Then I started to see that what he has is a disability and things were a little better. He has social problems and some autism as well as Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). he really believes that this is his only hope of being with his girls again. [/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma] he said to me "you always do his you all ways let me down when i need you the most" [/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]that was also what he abused me bout just weeks ago, my partner and i got together when my son was 3yrs old. we battled it out in the courts and battled his father for years until his father found himself a new wife. [/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]We had my son in therapy and found out that my sons father was telling him to plan to run away... anyway we had years of hell, husband wanted to move to where we are now its tippled our income... we left my son with his father at 12 Is where he wanted to be. He didnt want to come with us as he had friends at school, of cause that didnt last long for him. then he was screaming at me how we abandoned him, when he was going through the worst time in his life, teenage years... oh my goodness how he went on and on how I took his sister away (he had one sister down there as his dad had a daughter before we were together, I was a step mum at 18) and took myself away his mother.... I remember it different but listened to what he had to said and when he ranted and raced for an hour abusing me for the same stuff I said I was going, he screamed for me not to hang up but he had nothing more to add so I hung up. He had just lost his girls that was the only reason I sat there for that long while he cried and screamed.... I gave him that only for that reason and I defended myself. [/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]For the last few months since he is with his sister I have coped abuse, from his sister going on that I was a terrible step mother making her fold clothes and wash dishes. To be honest I cant remember to much, I was a pretty messed up kid growing up in an abusive house. My sons father was 7yrs older than me, I was a child and taken advantage of by him, that is how I see it.[/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]I look at my daughter 17yrs and cant imagine her pregnant with a step child. [/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]Anyway the guilt is still so bad. What if he does something to himself and I hate to inflicked so much pain onto him, he can hardly cope. [/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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