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13 year old will NOT abide by house rules...HELP!!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 520724" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Giulia, those are good ideas for some kids.... for most of ours here, they are really wired differently and sticker charts and rewards are very limited in their use...often just don't work well. Most of us have done zillions of sticker charts, delayed rewards, used ignoring programs, etc. Just not something that works for a large group of kids. Nearly all of us try that at first, because it is the most common kind of parenting and behavior modification but it simply does not work well for kids on the spectrum, those who are wired differently, those with chemical imbalances etc. Wish it did, life at home and school would be so much easier and we would all not have a need for this kind of a forum probably! (most of our kids dont have the underlying skills or control to earn those rewards....true, reward programs can help in little ways, to get out of a crisis or to get thru a short task...if the reward is easy to earn and quickly accessed, though long term behavioral change typically does not happen from that intervention alone. Many of us have to work on developing underlying skills, remediating deficits, overcoming chemical imbalances, etc. Takes lots of approaches and therapies.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 520724, member: 12886"] Giulia, those are good ideas for some kids.... for most of ours here, they are really wired differently and sticker charts and rewards are very limited in their use...often just don't work well. Most of us have done zillions of sticker charts, delayed rewards, used ignoring programs, etc. Just not something that works for a large group of kids. Nearly all of us try that at first, because it is the most common kind of parenting and behavior modification but it simply does not work well for kids on the spectrum, those who are wired differently, those with chemical imbalances etc. Wish it did, life at home and school would be so much easier and we would all not have a need for this kind of a forum probably! (most of our kids dont have the underlying skills or control to earn those rewards....true, reward programs can help in little ways, to get out of a crisis or to get thru a short task...if the reward is easy to earn and quickly accessed, though long term behavioral change typically does not happen from that intervention alone. Many of us have to work on developing underlying skills, remediating deficits, overcoming chemical imbalances, etc. Takes lots of approaches and therapies.) [/QUOTE]
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