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<blockquote data-quote="helpangel" data-source="post: 537553" data-attributes="member: 7170"><p>A 17yo is not a little kid who can get away with hurting people when they get mad, same as with Angel if she assaults someone police will come here and at police discretion she is going inpatient or jail. Only exception being mutual squabbles between the 2 sisters, they get into throw downs daily and R provokes Angel.</p><p></p><p>Talk to a lawyer about if need to declare him incorrigible, here you file papers with-court which signs husband's parental rights over to the state, adoptive parents absolutely never sign - major legal glitch. The state then decides whether he goes to juvi, Residential Treatment Center (RTC), group home or foster care. Him being 17yo will age out of system soon (if somehow stays out of prison) and if knows where you live and is holding a grudge for you this it could be bad. </p><p></p><p>Do you have room for a camping trailer on your property? or a garage that could be converted to a living quarters? He's so close to being an adult would probably go for "his own place" and then you wouldn't need to feel like have to sleep with one eye open. If he does end up staying with you try to never leave him alone with your other children and have some kind of nanny cams recording what happens when you aren't home etc. </p><p></p><p>Glad you found us but sorry you needed to, there is a great bunch of parents here who have experienced similar situations and you truly are not alone. Do what ever you feel necessary to keep your family safe there is no judgment here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpangel, post: 537553, member: 7170"] A 17yo is not a little kid who can get away with hurting people when they get mad, same as with Angel if she assaults someone police will come here and at police discretion she is going inpatient or jail. Only exception being mutual squabbles between the 2 sisters, they get into throw downs daily and R provokes Angel. Talk to a lawyer about if need to declare him incorrigible, here you file papers with-court which signs husband's parental rights over to the state, adoptive parents absolutely never sign - major legal glitch. The state then decides whether he goes to juvi, Residential Treatment Center (RTC), group home or foster care. Him being 17yo will age out of system soon (if somehow stays out of prison) and if knows where you live and is holding a grudge for you this it could be bad. Do you have room for a camping trailer on your property? or a garage that could be converted to a living quarters? He's so close to being an adult would probably go for "his own place" and then you wouldn't need to feel like have to sleep with one eye open. If he does end up staying with you try to never leave him alone with your other children and have some kind of nanny cams recording what happens when you aren't home etc. Glad you found us but sorry you needed to, there is a great bunch of parents here who have experienced similar situations and you truly are not alone. Do what ever you feel necessary to keep your family safe there is no judgment here. [/QUOTE]
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