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17 Yr old son has CD
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 722268" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If I was your wife, Id have moved out. He is not safe. He steals, is porn obsessed (im wimpy and the bdsm part would scare me) and who knows what else he does. You dont know everything. Parents never do.</p><p></p><p>Military schools dont want behavior problems...they send those home. I personally have not heard of wilderness camp working long term...and some are abusive. in my opinion he needs 100% residential out of house treatment. Your wife is afraid of him. I was once afraid of my own son. It was awful. I made him live with Dad. He was 21.</p><p></p><p>I dont see this going well if you try to keep son at home. Wife WILL leave and i doubt you will be close to son, not for a loooong time, at least. He is very troubled in a dangerous way.</p><p></p><p>There are no good solutions here. Maybe you need to get into therapy for yourself to clear your head and have a neutral third party involved, one who is not emotional. Do other kids live in your house? That would be another consideration.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry that you have this dilemma. I hope you can find somewhere safe and therapeutic for your son.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 722268, member: 1550"] If I was your wife, Id have moved out. He is not safe. He steals, is porn obsessed (im wimpy and the bdsm part would scare me) and who knows what else he does. You dont know everything. Parents never do. Military schools dont want behavior problems...they send those home. I personally have not heard of wilderness camp working long term...and some are abusive. in my opinion he needs 100% residential out of house treatment. Your wife is afraid of him. I was once afraid of my own son. It was awful. I made him live with Dad. He was 21. I dont see this going well if you try to keep son at home. Wife WILL leave and i doubt you will be close to son, not for a loooong time, at least. He is very troubled in a dangerous way. There are no good solutions here. Maybe you need to get into therapy for yourself to clear your head and have a neutral third party involved, one who is not emotional. Do other kids live in your house? That would be another consideration. I am sorry that you have this dilemma. I hope you can find somewhere safe and therapeutic for your son. [/QUOTE]
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