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2 of difficult child's ex friends got kicked out of school
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<blockquote data-quote="Giulia" data-source="post: 520711" data-attributes="member: 14306"><p>Like the others said, having a good judgment is granted for you, but not granted for him. </p><p>So praise him for having this good judgment cannot harm at all. Even, it will reinforce him in the wish to make good choices. </p><p></p><p>Also, the more you'll praise him for his good actions, the more you give him the will to make good actions. He wants to be noticed what he makes good. </p><p></p><p>If you notice only his bad choices and you ignore his good choices because you take them for granted, it's the best solution to launch the spiral of bad choices. </p><p></p><p></p><p>So even the smallest good choices, the smallest positive action deserves to be noticed and praised. </p><p>He grumps when he washed the dishes ? the most important is that he washed the dishes. So thank him for having washed the dishes, and ignore his grumpiness. </p><p>The most important is that he washed the dishes, so notice it. </p><p></p><p>As we say in France, "we don't attract ants with vinegar"....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Giulia, post: 520711, member: 14306"] Like the others said, having a good judgment is granted for you, but not granted for him. So praise him for having this good judgment cannot harm at all. Even, it will reinforce him in the wish to make good choices. Also, the more you'll praise him for his good actions, the more you give him the will to make good actions. He wants to be noticed what he makes good. If you notice only his bad choices and you ignore his good choices because you take them for granted, it's the best solution to launch the spiral of bad choices. So even the smallest good choices, the smallest positive action deserves to be noticed and praised. He grumps when he washed the dishes ? the most important is that he washed the dishes. So thank him for having washed the dishes, and ignore his grumpiness. The most important is that he washed the dishes, so notice it. As we say in France, "we don't attract ants with vinegar".... [/QUOTE]
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