Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Substance Abuse
20 Year Old Son has drug problem
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="rb1219" data-source="post: 541726" data-attributes="member: 14935"><p>OK So I went down to my sons job yesterday and met him at 5 oclock.He odviously looked high.I told him that I really needed to talk to him,but didnt tell him why.He said sure, but he needed to pick up pot for a friend first.Seriously?So my plan,whatever it took was to get him into my car.I dont know if it was right,probably not,but I had him drop his car off home and I took him to get the weed.Now I got him.He kept asking why we had to go all the way back to my house to talk.I told him noone was home and it was very important.He also kept asking what it was about and wouldnt give up.The night before I wrote him a letter explaining how I felt and what I knew.Basically that I love him,I know what hes doing and I want to help.So I gave him the letter to read as we drove.He finished the letter and I explained,we talked for quite a while, all the time he was insisting that he dosent have a problem.He smokes 1-2 joints a day and takes zanex.He said the rumors of harder drugs are not true.He gave me $300 from his check to hold.He kept $70.He makes $435.So right away..$65 is missing.</p><p>So I made the decision to have his car taken while he was at my house.It is a lease in his grandfathers name.....bad idea!I explained to him that his car was being taken,he said fine take it.I said you cannot drive on zanex and pot.I could not get him to admit he had a problem,so he wanted to go home.I couldnt force him to stay,so I gave him a tight hug,and he hugged me back,told him that I love him and am worried, and reluctantly drove him home.I got sh** from both my wife and ex wife that I should not have let him go......what else could I have done.Mission failed!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rb1219, post: 541726, member: 14935"] OK So I went down to my sons job yesterday and met him at 5 oclock.He odviously looked high.I told him that I really needed to talk to him,but didnt tell him why.He said sure, but he needed to pick up pot for a friend first.Seriously?So my plan,whatever it took was to get him into my car.I dont know if it was right,probably not,but I had him drop his car off home and I took him to get the weed.Now I got him.He kept asking why we had to go all the way back to my house to talk.I told him noone was home and it was very important.He also kept asking what it was about and wouldnt give up.The night before I wrote him a letter explaining how I felt and what I knew.Basically that I love him,I know what hes doing and I want to help.So I gave him the letter to read as we drove.He finished the letter and I explained,we talked for quite a while, all the time he was insisting that he dosent have a problem.He smokes 1-2 joints a day and takes zanex.He said the rumors of harder drugs are not true.He gave me $300 from his check to hold.He kept $70.He makes $435.So right away..$65 is missing. So I made the decision to have his car taken while he was at my house.It is a lease in his grandfathers name.....bad idea!I explained to him that his car was being taken,he said fine take it.I said you cannot drive on zanex and pot.I could not get him to admit he had a problem,so he wanted to go home.I couldnt force him to stay,so I gave him a tight hug,and he hugged me back,told him that I love him and am worried, and reluctantly drove him home.I got sh** from both my wife and ex wife that I should not have let him go......what else could I have done.Mission failed! [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Substance Abuse
20 Year Old Son has drug problem
Top