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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 598441" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there. I'm so sorry he has relapsed. </p><p></p><p>I agree with DDD, although I was one who made my daughter leave and cut off all money when she refused any treatment. It did help her. She quit. Doesn't mean doing that will work for all kids. Also, she was lucky that her older brother took her in, but his rules were strict and if she had so much had lit up one cigarette she would have been tossed in the streets and she knew it. If she had kept the basement, where she stayed, a mess, he would have also thrown her out. in my opinion nobody should have to put up with a grown child being a slob in her own house, but that's me.</p><p></p><p>Detachment and going on with our own lives <em>is</em> universal here. We can not let our grown kids kill us or stop us from living good lives. If necessary, go to nar-anon or al-anon (most likely he is a problem drinker too if he smokes drugs). Usually (not always) drinking, recreational drug use and cigarettes go together.</p><p></p><p>I hope you can learn to detach. Post again. We're here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 598441, member: 1550"] Hi there. I'm so sorry he has relapsed. I agree with DDD, although I was one who made my daughter leave and cut off all money when she refused any treatment. It did help her. She quit. Doesn't mean doing that will work for all kids. Also, she was lucky that her older brother took her in, but his rules were strict and if she had so much had lit up one cigarette she would have been tossed in the streets and she knew it. If she had kept the basement, where she stayed, a mess, he would have also thrown her out. in my opinion nobody should have to put up with a grown child being a slob in her own house, but that's me. Detachment and going on with our own lives [I]is[/I] universal here. We can not let our grown kids kill us or stop us from living good lives. If necessary, go to nar-anon or al-anon (most likely he is a problem drinker too if he smokes drugs). Usually (not always) drinking, recreational drug use and cigarettes go together. I hope you can learn to detach. Post again. We're here. [/QUOTE]
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