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21 year old son in and out of house
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<blockquote data-quote="youngmomwithadultson" data-source="post: 634205" data-attributes="member: 18247"><p>I wanted to write an update that i'm struggling again with my son. I've laid out some boundaries and I know i'll stick to them. I've set the dates and I've set my house rules. The manipulation that comes when I speak to him doesn't end and I fall into it and I fall into the depression that comes with it. I'm coming back here to reset my thinking and i'm using the tools I have found. I know I can not be an enabler. I'm really glad I came here tonight. I don't know how I get reprogrammed into old thinking. Its old habits I guess. Does anyone get stuck in a merry go round, loop de loop argument when trying to enforce your detachment principals? I could really use some tips there. Should I not have conversations at all? where am I going wrong? I need a wake up call because i'm not seeing things clearly again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="youngmomwithadultson, post: 634205, member: 18247"] I wanted to write an update that i'm struggling again with my son. I've laid out some boundaries and I know i'll stick to them. I've set the dates and I've set my house rules. The manipulation that comes when I speak to him doesn't end and I fall into it and I fall into the depression that comes with it. I'm coming back here to reset my thinking and i'm using the tools I have found. I know I can not be an enabler. I'm really glad I came here tonight. I don't know how I get reprogrammed into old thinking. Its old habits I guess. Does anyone get stuck in a merry go round, loop de loop argument when trying to enforce your detachment principals? I could really use some tips there. Should I not have conversations at all? where am I going wrong? I need a wake up call because i'm not seeing things clearly again. [/QUOTE]
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