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22 year old son brings home new girlfriend of 3 weeks and she is sleeping in his bed
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 391095" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>There's lots of expressing concerns and suggestions going on here. It's time speak in terms of absolutes. You don't have a signature so it's difficult to know what kind of mental/physical health history your son has. Either way, he's not going to find a home for $25 anywhere else. It wouldn't be a horrible thing if he became self-sufficient and got his own place so that he and this girl can sleep together. But allow a stranger to stay in <em>my house</em> while I'm off at work? <em>No way</em>. Period. Allow a girlfriend to sleep over? They'd better both get jobs and get their own place if they want to play house. Period.</p><p></p><p>FWIW, I know that the divorce makes triangulation a real issue. But I guarantee you, if he isn't living with daddy now, it's because daddy isn't as much of a pushover as you are. He may <em>say</em> it's no big deal, but if he really feels that way he should set up a bedroom for your son and any girl he wants to bring home.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 391095, member: 99"] There's lots of expressing concerns and suggestions going on here. It's time speak in terms of absolutes. You don't have a signature so it's difficult to know what kind of mental/physical health history your son has. Either way, he's not going to find a home for $25 anywhere else. It wouldn't be a horrible thing if he became self-sufficient and got his own place so that he and this girl can sleep together. But allow a stranger to stay in [I]my house[/I] while I'm off at work? [I]No way[/I]. Period. Allow a girlfriend to sleep over? They'd better both get jobs and get their own place if they want to play house. Period. FWIW, I know that the divorce makes triangulation a real issue. But I guarantee you, if he isn't living with daddy now, it's because daddy isn't as much of a pushover as you are. He may [I]say[/I] it's no big deal, but if he really feels that way he should set up a bedroom for your son and any girl he wants to bring home. [/QUOTE]
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