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22 year old son brings home new girlfriend of 3 weeks and she is sleeping in his bed
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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 391188" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>I only have a minute so I haven't read through the other posts so forgive me for any redundancy. (Very possible if other long time warrior parents have responded).</p><p> </p><p>Here are my thoughts...if she stays overnight she pays a daily rate at the same price as a hotel. Another way of handlingit would be to up his rent to cover the added expences of her visits. If difficult child doesn't like it he should find another place to stay. </p><p> </p><p>I'm assuming you have no lease agreement. You might want to concider drawing one up although it will put you in the position of paying taxes on the collected rent and you should also check for posible zoning restrictions before taking this step. </p><p> </p><p>But really, $25 dollars for rent for a 22 year old and he thinks he can do whatever he wants???? He has some learning to do. Sounds like his father is a bit vindictive and unsupportingof you. You can't change his mindset but you could tell your difficult child to go live with his father since he and his dad are so liberally minded. </p><p> </p><p>Getting him out of your home could be tricky. In some states once you let someone, even a relative, move in; you have to go through an eviction process to get them out. That said, you can be creative (without breaking any laws) and make him <strong>want</strong> to move . Some suggestions would be: Playing loud elevator music. Buying only foods he hates. Putting a timer on the hot water for showers or if you can't afford that, just shut it off at the main shut off valve (be sure to timeit for when he or she is very wet and soapy) or you could run the diswasher everytime he showers if it interferes with the water flow in the bath. Another suggestion would be to install a coin slot on the washer and dryer... oh my, the list goes on and on. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 391188, member: 2315"] I only have a minute so I haven't read through the other posts so forgive me for any redundancy. (Very possible if other long time warrior parents have responded). Here are my thoughts...if she stays overnight she pays a daily rate at the same price as a hotel. Another way of handlingit would be to up his rent to cover the added expences of her visits. If difficult child doesn't like it he should find another place to stay. I'm assuming you have no lease agreement. You might want to concider drawing one up although it will put you in the position of paying taxes on the collected rent and you should also check for posible zoning restrictions before taking this step. But really, $25 dollars for rent for a 22 year old and he thinks he can do whatever he wants???? He has some learning to do. Sounds like his father is a bit vindictive and unsupportingof you. You can't change his mindset but you could tell your difficult child to go live with his father since he and his dad are so liberally minded. Getting him out of your home could be tricky. In some states once you let someone, even a relative, move in; you have to go through an eviction process to get them out. That said, you can be creative (without breaking any laws) and make him [B]want[/B] to move . Some suggestions would be: Playing loud elevator music. Buying only foods he hates. Putting a timer on the hot water for showers or if you can't afford that, just shut it off at the main shut off valve (be sure to timeit for when he or she is very wet and soapy) or you could run the diswasher everytime he showers if it interferes with the water flow in the bath. Another suggestion would be to install a coin slot on the washer and dryer... oh my, the list goes on and on. -RM [/QUOTE]
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