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22 year old son brings home new girlfriend of 3 weeks and she is sleeping in his bed
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 392266" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I don't think it's really a pro and con question. We don't know exactly how different families interact. If she is flatly opposed to the idea, that's the end of the decision. on the other hand if she feels more secure with company than she does alone?? If the yard work and chores that are done help reduce her stress or increase her feeling of wellbeing?? If the girl contributes something positive to their homelife?? There are alot of variables.</p><p> </p><p>None of us seek out this circumstance and the decision making it calls for <strong>but </strong>if it "does no harm" or helps her during her</p><p>adjustment to single life ?? then I don't think she should take a stand based on what conventional living indicates. All of us</p><p>have had to learn about "grey" and about making the best our of what our lives offer. Sadly the image we had of the future when we were young has taken a hike. Absolutely she is the one to make the choice based on her own feelings but</p><p>bucking tradition can (not will) provide advantages over the alternatives. DDD (who wishes life had remained simple)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 392266, member: 35"] I don't think it's really a pro and con question. We don't know exactly how different families interact. If she is flatly opposed to the idea, that's the end of the decision. on the other hand if she feels more secure with company than she does alone?? If the yard work and chores that are done help reduce her stress or increase her feeling of wellbeing?? If the girl contributes something positive to their homelife?? There are alot of variables. None of us seek out this circumstance and the decision making it calls for [B]but [/B]if it "does no harm" or helps her during her adjustment to single life ?? then I don't think she should take a stand based on what conventional living indicates. All of us have had to learn about "grey" and about making the best our of what our lives offer. Sadly the image we had of the future when we were young has taken a hike. Absolutely she is the one to make the choice based on her own feelings but bucking tradition can (not will) provide advantages over the alternatives. DDD (who wishes life had remained simple) [/QUOTE]
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