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25 yr old son living at home, lies, steals, sneaks and cant keep a job
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<blockquote data-quote="DarkwingPsyduck" data-source="post: 686337" data-attributes="member: 20267"><p>That may be true... But do you REALLY want to be able to make every decision for them? Even knowing that they will be much better than the ones they are making themselves? Then what happens when you aren't around? Do you want them to be entirely reliant upon you? The situation they find themselves in does not reflect poorly on you, in any way. I don't know about it being analogues to a wiring problem, but blaming yourself only makes it easier for them to blame you. And, if it isn't their fault, why should they try? See what I mean?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DarkwingPsyduck, post: 686337, member: 20267"] That may be true... But do you REALLY want to be able to make every decision for them? Even knowing that they will be much better than the ones they are making themselves? Then what happens when you aren't around? Do you want them to be entirely reliant upon you? The situation they find themselves in does not reflect poorly on you, in any way. I don't know about it being analogues to a wiring problem, but blaming yourself only makes it easier for them to blame you. And, if it isn't their fault, why should they try? See what I mean? [/QUOTE]
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