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6 year old son keeps getting kicked out of school
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<blockquote data-quote="kim75062" data-source="post: 701208" data-attributes="member: 20727"><p>I agree they can not handle him and its not their fault they don't have the training to do it. Not using common sense though is their fault. Ex. child runs off from adults to escape the noise in gym, so lets take him outside (to get to the gym) and not hold his hand because he says "I promise I wont run off".(I said stop taking him to the gym) Child cant sit still so lets try to force him to sit through a 20 min lesson instead of letting in pace in the back of the classroom so he has free movement and is listening. Or he gets angry and frustrated at his own art work and throws crayons "violently" (did not hit or aim or try to hit anyone with them) so we restrain him and force him to the front office in front of all his peers. Lying to me or omitting potentially dangerous situations about what happens with my son is their fault. Its been nothing but a continuous build up of bad decisions by the administration at this school that I really think has lead to these behavior problems getting worse instead of better.</p><p></p><p>Had they followed their own plan consistently over the last few weeks who knows where we would be today. The first week (with the old para) the plan went in place he made huge progress. He was no longer running out of the class but asking to go to the courtyard to run for a few mins and then would return to class without incident most times. He was asking to go 4-5 times a day but I'm sure the frequency would of lessened with more time. He was telling them "I feel really nervous" or "I need to get away from here" instead of darting out the door. When they listened to him on how he was feeling at the time and removed him from the situation there was no more meltdowns and aggression because he didn't feel trapped anymore. Now we are back to square one where he doesn't say anything to anyone and lets it build up until he explodes because he says "no one listens to me anyway".</p><p></p><p>I wish I could think of another place that I could send him that was structured and not "fun" to see if he reacts differently to a different setting. But really the only place like a school is school.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kim75062, post: 701208, member: 20727"] I agree they can not handle him and its not their fault they don't have the training to do it. Not using common sense though is their fault. Ex. child runs off from adults to escape the noise in gym, so lets take him outside (to get to the gym) and not hold his hand because he says "I promise I wont run off".(I said stop taking him to the gym) Child cant sit still so lets try to force him to sit through a 20 min lesson instead of letting in pace in the back of the classroom so he has free movement and is listening. Or he gets angry and frustrated at his own art work and throws crayons "violently" (did not hit or aim or try to hit anyone with them) so we restrain him and force him to the front office in front of all his peers. Lying to me or omitting potentially dangerous situations about what happens with my son is their fault. Its been nothing but a continuous build up of bad decisions by the administration at this school that I really think has lead to these behavior problems getting worse instead of better. Had they followed their own plan consistently over the last few weeks who knows where we would be today. The first week (with the old para) the plan went in place he made huge progress. He was no longer running out of the class but asking to go to the courtyard to run for a few mins and then would return to class without incident most times. He was asking to go 4-5 times a day but I'm sure the frequency would of lessened with more time. He was telling them "I feel really nervous" or "I need to get away from here" instead of darting out the door. When they listened to him on how he was feeling at the time and removed him from the situation there was no more meltdowns and aggression because he didn't feel trapped anymore. Now we are back to square one where he doesn't say anything to anyone and lets it build up until he explodes because he says "no one listens to me anyway". I wish I could think of another place that I could send him that was structured and not "fun" to see if he reacts differently to a different setting. But really the only place like a school is school. [/QUOTE]
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