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6yrs7mths old unhappy son , may be with adhd(not sure)...
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<blockquote data-quote="life" data-source="post: 600193" data-attributes="member: 16547"><p>Thanks a lot to all of u for your replies. Your answers mean a lot to me ...</p><p>We live in India . Kids here start going to school at the age of 3.</p><p></p><p>Getting separated from my husband is not a choice for me. my mom is a single mother as she got separated due to harassments. And I don't want to go for it and make it a typical choice for my kids when they grow up. One main reason is I know my husband, for sure loves me and my kids. Just like how you all feel my son is helpless, I think my husband is also helpless for his attitude and behaviour. He is very egoistic. Full of attitude. I feel hurt when I see that attitude in my son too. My son is very good at school . I am sorry for using the word laziness. But you are right, he is scared and scolded for almost everything he does. I feel like I have found one solution from you answers. Thanks.His health is getting better and both of us can take decisions on that together.</p><p></p><p>My son can do things well when he wants to. But somehow doesn't agree when I point out a mistake. He would start crying.</p><p>And my husband will get irritated. And there will be a chain of reactions. which is what I want to avoid.</p><p>My husband, whenever is in a normal mood, agrees that he is less matured than me. And is in a way scared all his bad behaviour should not go to to our son. But I have never been able to convince him to take him and my son to a nueropsych( I have tried many times). He thinks he is totally fine and its only I who blows out everything into an issue and treating him and my son like mentally ill people. I cannot take my son to a doctor without my husband's consent as it will easily be known. And will lead to many other issues every day and worsen the situation.</p><p>I need your help to stay calm and take my son in a positive way. Stay strong and unaffected by my husband's behaviour. Focus on my kids. Stop hurting my son. Follow rules to lead my son in the right way.</p><p></p><p>I feel like I have reached the saturation point to tolerate any more of these and showing all my emotions to my son. Feel so bad for him. I shouldn't be doing this. I feel I am not a good mother...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="life, post: 600193, member: 16547"] Thanks a lot to all of u for your replies. Your answers mean a lot to me ... We live in India . Kids here start going to school at the age of 3. Getting separated from my husband is not a choice for me. my mom is a single mother as she got separated due to harassments. And I don't want to go for it and make it a typical choice for my kids when they grow up. One main reason is I know my husband, for sure loves me and my kids. Just like how you all feel my son is helpless, I think my husband is also helpless for his attitude and behaviour. He is very egoistic. Full of attitude. I feel hurt when I see that attitude in my son too. My son is very good at school . I am sorry for using the word laziness. But you are right, he is scared and scolded for almost everything he does. I feel like I have found one solution from you answers. Thanks.His health is getting better and both of us can take decisions on that together. My son can do things well when he wants to. But somehow doesn't agree when I point out a mistake. He would start crying. And my husband will get irritated. And there will be a chain of reactions. which is what I want to avoid. My husband, whenever is in a normal mood, agrees that he is less matured than me. And is in a way scared all his bad behaviour should not go to to our son. But I have never been able to convince him to take him and my son to a nueropsych( I have tried many times). He thinks he is totally fine and its only I who blows out everything into an issue and treating him and my son like mentally ill people. I cannot take my son to a doctor without my husband's consent as it will easily be known. And will lead to many other issues every day and worsen the situation. I need your help to stay calm and take my son in a positive way. Stay strong and unaffected by my husband's behaviour. Focus on my kids. Stop hurting my son. Follow rules to lead my son in the right way. I feel like I have reached the saturation point to tolerate any more of these and showing all my emotions to my son. Feel so bad for him. I shouldn't be doing this. I feel I am not a good mother... [/QUOTE]
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