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<blockquote data-quote="GOSOX" data-source="post: 110228" data-attributes="member: 4456"><p>Wow.. thanks so much for all of your replies.. you all have such great info and yes for sure I will be back on here.. more than likely tomorrow am as I just got home from work and need to have a pity party and then clean my apt. </p><p>I think that having the boyfriend is an issue yes, but as another posteee ( poster?) wrote I do have a right to be happy.. and the guilt is KILLING me.. ... actually the parenting expert said.. the way I " correct or try and institute a rule" I actually " sound" guilty answering my daughter if that makes any sense at all.</p><p>I many times say, " I'm sorry H.. you cant do that to Mommy." When ... in reality I need to phrase it all differently.</p><p></p><p>I so understand what my own daughter is going thru. </p><p>My Dad " left us" and he was an every other with-e dad for my whole life and now we barely stay in touch. </p><p>I recall DREADING going to his home and like H.. calling my Mom to beg to go home. I was never allowed. </p><p>Last night I let her.</p><p>I just felt that she felt like I did 31 years ago at age 6.</p><p>My dad also had his girlfriend ALWAYS there.. and I have been VERY careful with that as well because of it.</p><p>( guilt again... guilt guilt) </p><p>But I for me could not have made a better choice.</p><p>My marriage was a farce and all looked good on the outside .. while in... not speaking, swearing at one another etc.</p><p></p><p>Again.. thank you all so much for these replies on a Christmas Day.</p><p>They ALL mean more to me than you know.</p><p>I will post again tomorrow when more time allows.</p><p>Thanks..</p><p>and yes .. my SOX are the RED SOX<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>GOSOX</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GOSOX, post: 110228, member: 4456"] Wow.. thanks so much for all of your replies.. you all have such great info and yes for sure I will be back on here.. more than likely tomorrow am as I just got home from work and need to have a pity party and then clean my apt. I think that having the boyfriend is an issue yes, but as another posteee ( poster?) wrote I do have a right to be happy.. and the guilt is KILLING me.. ... actually the parenting expert said.. the way I " correct or try and institute a rule" I actually " sound" guilty answering my daughter if that makes any sense at all. I many times say, " I'm sorry H.. you cant do that to Mommy." When ... in reality I need to phrase it all differently. I so understand what my own daughter is going thru. My Dad " left us" and he was an every other with-e dad for my whole life and now we barely stay in touch. I recall DREADING going to his home and like H.. calling my Mom to beg to go home. I was never allowed. Last night I let her. I just felt that she felt like I did 31 years ago at age 6. My dad also had his girlfriend ALWAYS there.. and I have been VERY careful with that as well because of it. ( guilt again... guilt guilt) But I for me could not have made a better choice. My marriage was a farce and all looked good on the outside .. while in... not speaking, swearing at one another etc. Again.. thank you all so much for these replies on a Christmas Day. They ALL mean more to me than you know. I will post again tomorrow when more time allows. Thanks.. and yes .. my SOX are the RED SOX:) GOSOX [/QUOTE]
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