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<blockquote data-quote="mom23gsfg" data-source="post: 110293" data-attributes="member: 4445"><p>sounds way too familiar to me, sounds like my life.my ex and i used to fight alot it even got physical way too many times. the strange part was before we split the kids seemed fine ,however when i got the courage to leave my kids all started acting up. hitting me, cursing me and refusing to listen to me.</p><p> i started dating too soon afterwards and etc.</p><p>what i didnt relize at the time i needed counseling myself.</p><p>i ended up in a mental facility for tring to kill myself before i relized just how much i needed help and that was over 2 yrs after leaving my husband.i was hitting myself without even knowing i was doing it(i would have bruises on myself and not know how they got there)luckily one day one of my dear friends caught me doing this to myself.</p><p>the doctor said i was reliving the past in my mind.and with hitting myself i was hitting back at him.</p><p>as for the children, the counselor said my children where just starting what there dad had done and they thought they could get by with it because he had.and didnt really know it was wrong because id let him get by with it.</p><p>as for dating heres some advice i wish someone would have told me ....think back to all the early times when your husband started treating you this way...if u see any of this out a man u are dating ..trust ur instincts and get rid of him! </p><p>it is way too easy to fall into the old habit of letting someone mistreat you.</p><p>you wouldnt believe how many jerks pick up on how vunerable u are and treat u the same bad way.</p><p>my counselor also taught me before you can be truelly happy with anyone,you have to learn how to make urself happy first.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom23gsfg, post: 110293, member: 4445"] sounds way too familiar to me, sounds like my life.my ex and i used to fight alot it even got physical way too many times. the strange part was before we split the kids seemed fine ,however when i got the courage to leave my kids all started acting up. hitting me, cursing me and refusing to listen to me. i started dating too soon afterwards and etc. what i didnt relize at the time i needed counseling myself. i ended up in a mental facility for tring to kill myself before i relized just how much i needed help and that was over 2 yrs after leaving my husband.i was hitting myself without even knowing i was doing it(i would have bruises on myself and not know how they got there)luckily one day one of my dear friends caught me doing this to myself. the doctor said i was reliving the past in my mind.and with hitting myself i was hitting back at him. as for the children, the counselor said my children where just starting what there dad had done and they thought they could get by with it because he had.and didnt really know it was wrong because id let him get by with it. as for dating heres some advice i wish someone would have told me ....think back to all the early times when your husband started treating you this way...if u see any of this out a man u are dating ..trust ur instincts and get rid of him! it is way too easy to fall into the old habit of letting someone mistreat you. you wouldnt believe how many jerks pick up on how vunerable u are and treat u the same bad way. my counselor also taught me before you can be truelly happy with anyone,you have to learn how to make urself happy first. [/QUOTE]
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