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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 110872" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Hi Gosox! Welcome to our little soft landing place. It would be really helpful for us if you could do a signature to go on the bottom of your posts. On the right side of the page there is a link in the Resources box. Thanks so much!</p><p></p><p>As for advice about divorce, kids, boyfriends, I really have none. I haven't been there.</p><p></p><p>For the rages and outbursts ONLY around you, been there. YOU get the joy and privilege of these horrible things because your daughter trusts your love for her. She holds it together everywhere else and falls apart all over you. It really stinks. </p><p></p><p>My son did this for a long time. I had to really LOOK at his relationships with the others in his life, esp my husband and parents. He knew I would ALWAYS be there, would set limits to STOP him if it was humanly possible, and would leave no stone unturned to find help for him - medical, psychiatric, therapeautic, you name it. (I did refuse the exorcism, but we tried almost everything else we could find. And I am NOT joking.)</p><p></p><p>Your daughter is a confused, scared young lady. A child psychiatrist who will spend TIME with you and will listen is a must. Many of us have luck with team or multi-disciplinary evaluations. Also, a Parent Input report (also in the Resources box!) will be a huge help to you and any medical/other professionals you consult. I don't know that we would have gotten halfway to where we are now with-o the report. </p><p></p><p>The Explosive Child is a great book. Another resource I found very helpful was Parenting with Love and Logic. Many of us also use it. It teaches you HOW to let natural consequences teach your child, and it teaches HOW to communicate as a PARENT while strengthening the loving bond. The website is <a href="http://www.loveandlogic.com" target="_blank">http://www.loveandlogic.com</a> - I love it because it has a lot of FREE info, certainly enough to give you an idea of what it is all about. They have a relatively new book about parenting a special needs child with love and logic. The audio downloads are funny. I have been to a conference with Dr. Charles Fay Sr. and it was an amazing day. Well worth the $$$, and very entertaining. I learned a lot of useful tools that day!</p><p></p><p>Welcome again,</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 110872, member: 1233"] Hi Gosox! Welcome to our little soft landing place. It would be really helpful for us if you could do a signature to go on the bottom of your posts. On the right side of the page there is a link in the Resources box. Thanks so much! As for advice about divorce, kids, boyfriends, I really have none. I haven't been there. For the rages and outbursts ONLY around you, been there. YOU get the joy and privilege of these horrible things because your daughter trusts your love for her. She holds it together everywhere else and falls apart all over you. It really stinks. My son did this for a long time. I had to really LOOK at his relationships with the others in his life, esp my husband and parents. He knew I would ALWAYS be there, would set limits to STOP him if it was humanly possible, and would leave no stone unturned to find help for him - medical, psychiatric, therapeautic, you name it. (I did refuse the exorcism, but we tried almost everything else we could find. And I am NOT joking.) Your daughter is a confused, scared young lady. A child psychiatrist who will spend TIME with you and will listen is a must. Many of us have luck with team or multi-disciplinary evaluations. Also, a Parent Input report (also in the Resources box!) will be a huge help to you and any medical/other professionals you consult. I don't know that we would have gotten halfway to where we are now with-o the report. The Explosive Child is a great book. Another resource I found very helpful was Parenting with Love and Logic. Many of us also use it. It teaches you HOW to let natural consequences teach your child, and it teaches HOW to communicate as a PARENT while strengthening the loving bond. The website is [url="http://www.loveandlogic.com"]http://www.loveandlogic.com[/url] - I love it because it has a lot of FREE info, certainly enough to give you an idea of what it is all about. They have a relatively new book about parenting a special needs child with love and logic. The audio downloads are funny. I have been to a conference with Dr. Charles Fay Sr. and it was an amazing day. Well worth the $$$, and very entertaining. I learned a lot of useful tools that day! Welcome again, Susie [/QUOTE]
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