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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 422185" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>welcome rose........ you sound like such a caring and dedicated mom. try not to beat yourself up and look into meditation breathing and yoga for relaxation to stop the panic attacks right now for you. remember to take your time and your breaks, it's crucial so you can cope thru all of this. truly. if you aren't ok she will def be worse than ok</p><p> </p><p>neuropysch evaluation sounds good to me also, put her in therapy also... what were her younger years like?? sounds like she was always a busy girl <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>hang in there, the neuropsychologist is a good starting point, meanwhile get a board in the kitchen dry erase write down the weekly schedule it does lower anxiety. we do it now in our home. we always had some sort of schedule yet now it's more structured. than write one for her and keep it in a book for her like a binder.</p><p> </p><p>in the binder you can make sections for her:</p><p> </p><p>sit with her and do it when she's calm and in a good place.</p><p> </p><p>ask her what maker her happy that she can do in the house........ write those in the section under coping skills.</p><p> </p><p>than write down her schedule put that in another section for her and post on wall also.</p><p> </p><p>ask her to draw a few pics do it with her pics of what makes her happy or favorite memories put those in a happy places section......</p><p> </p><p>get the idea. make that her special book. let her decorate the front of it. get anything out of her room that's breakable etc. to avoid breakage. get her sleeping in her room also. you need your time!!! now especially. you cannot cope all day long and than have her ontop of you all night long. it's just not good for you. maybe go to store see if she picks out a quilt she likes, get lavendar spray have her put it on her pillow at night. also give her as much attention as you can, i've learned this one took years lol when she's being good, complying i mean really make a big deal out of it. than when she's off the charts unless she's going to injure you or someone ignore it as much as possible.</p><p> </p><p>maybe those things will help a tiny bit till you get some real testing done to see whats going on exactly. do you have insurance for her?? good luck welcome again!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 422185, member: 4514"] hi welcome rose........ you sound like such a caring and dedicated mom. try not to beat yourself up and look into meditation breathing and yoga for relaxation to stop the panic attacks right now for you. remember to take your time and your breaks, it's crucial so you can cope thru all of this. truly. if you aren't ok she will def be worse than ok neuropysch evaluation sounds good to me also, put her in therapy also... what were her younger years like?? sounds like she was always a busy girl :) hang in there, the neuropsychologist is a good starting point, meanwhile get a board in the kitchen dry erase write down the weekly schedule it does lower anxiety. we do it now in our home. we always had some sort of schedule yet now it's more structured. than write one for her and keep it in a book for her like a binder. in the binder you can make sections for her: sit with her and do it when she's calm and in a good place. ask her what maker her happy that she can do in the house........ write those in the section under coping skills. than write down her schedule put that in another section for her and post on wall also. ask her to draw a few pics do it with her pics of what makes her happy or favorite memories put those in a happy places section...... get the idea. make that her special book. let her decorate the front of it. get anything out of her room that's breakable etc. to avoid breakage. get her sleeping in her room also. you need your time!!! now especially. you cannot cope all day long and than have her ontop of you all night long. it's just not good for you. maybe go to store see if she picks out a quilt she likes, get lavendar spray have her put it on her pillow at night. also give her as much attention as you can, i've learned this one took years lol when she's being good, complying i mean really make a big deal out of it. than when she's off the charts unless she's going to injure you or someone ignore it as much as possible. maybe those things will help a tiny bit till you get some real testing done to see whats going on exactly. do you have insurance for her?? good luck welcome again!!! [/QUOTE]
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