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A 10 minute tantrum...
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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 367775" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>Now is the time, when she has forgotten about the pen, to explain to her that she sounded like a 4 year old when she was claiming her pen. She has to learn self awareness and the only way is for you to help her see it. </p><p>Do it during a calm, peaceful moment. Ask her if she remembers the pen incident? Then start asking her why she felt that it was so important to claim it and explain how she appeared to you (like a 4 year old) and then talk about how someone outside the family might perceive that reaction to someone using her pen. Then how she might have calmed herself to some patience and perhaps the response in the future could be, "Oh, I did not know my pen was in here. When you are done using it I will put it back in my room." </p><p></p><p>This is the only way to help her at this age. Get her to see it and figure out how to change the reaction.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 367775, member: 391"] Now is the time, when she has forgotten about the pen, to explain to her that she sounded like a 4 year old when she was claiming her pen. She has to learn self awareness and the only way is for you to help her see it. Do it during a calm, peaceful moment. Ask her if she remembers the pen incident? Then start asking her why she felt that it was so important to claim it and explain how she appeared to you (like a 4 year old) and then talk about how someone outside the family might perceive that reaction to someone using her pen. Then how she might have calmed herself to some patience and perhaps the response in the future could be, "Oh, I did not know my pen was in here. When you are done using it I will put it back in my room." This is the only way to help her at this age. Get her to see it and figure out how to change the reaction. [/QUOTE]
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