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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 101030" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Hi! I agree that a move to Dad's isn't a good idea. Ultimately, he's going to get the idea that running away from problems and stress will be the way to handle things.</p><p></p><p>I was thinking that getting him into some non-confrontational counseling. Not necessarily medications, but someone who will understand where he's coming from in a non-judgemental setting.</p><p></p><p>You know, 16 is a constant battle whether things are great or not. And being parents, we get to the point of "defending" ourselves and pointing out their short-comings. When he gets on about the house being a mess, you being ill, moving, etc. I know I would go on the defensive immediately. Maybe he's trying to spell out his fears/anxiety over a world "spinning out of control" (remember: 16 - drama kings/queens) and he's probably feeling extremely helpless in the various situations. My sisters boys turn into ugly little demons when she relapses. You'd think they'd step up, but in fact their just scared little kids.</p><p></p><p>My vote: a young male counselor. You might want to talk to your doctor about "groups" that meet for kids of parents with chronic illness. </p><p></p><p>Just a thought my friend. Anything is better than what you're dealing with now!</p><p></p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 101030, member: 3814"] Hi! I agree that a move to Dad's isn't a good idea. Ultimately, he's going to get the idea that running away from problems and stress will be the way to handle things. I was thinking that getting him into some non-confrontational counseling. Not necessarily medications, but someone who will understand where he's coming from in a non-judgemental setting. You know, 16 is a constant battle whether things are great or not. And being parents, we get to the point of "defending" ourselves and pointing out their short-comings. When he gets on about the house being a mess, you being ill, moving, etc. I know I would go on the defensive immediately. Maybe he's trying to spell out his fears/anxiety over a world "spinning out of control" (remember: 16 - drama kings/queens) and he's probably feeling extremely helpless in the various situations. My sisters boys turn into ugly little demons when she relapses. You'd think they'd step up, but in fact their just scared little kids. My vote: a young male counselor. You might want to talk to your doctor about "groups" that meet for kids of parents with chronic illness. Just a thought my friend. Anything is better than what you're dealing with now! Beth [/QUOTE]
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