I have to say that I do have a wonderful husband. Great step kids, a great career, and a beautiful home since I left my ex 4 years ago after 20 years of marriage. Unfortunately I struggle every day with the quilt of the wonderful life I have found while my son is sick and homeless. The resentment he feels is obvious when I was still communicating. My older son has left threats against my new family and myself. He is 32 and not doing much better than the 26 yr old. They blame me. It hurts. I believe this is because there father is a pot head and pretty sure that
He is bi-polar and it was hard for me to live with him. Really hard on the kids. They were so happy when I left (they were already adults). But they just thought it would be easier to manipulate me. And they did for awhile. But now my new husband encourages me to dis associate and they are angry.
