Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
A husband problem
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 477296" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Even though Tony isnt autistic (that I know at least) he does have some difficult child traits. He is able to keep or find a job for the most part but it is in fairly low paying construction work. Most folks think construction workers make great livings. I dont know if its just mine or if its the economy or the type of work he does or our location but he doesnt get paid very well for working 30 years in the same occupation. He also has a very difficulty with reading comprehension which bothers him tons. He is allergic to making phone calls for himself about anything outside his circle of friends and immediate company he works for. He wont call a doctor, he wont call the power company, he wont call the phone company, anything like that. He wont do anything like math or forms. All that is what I am for. </p><p></p><p>Well all that was well and good until I started getting sicker back in the early 2000's. It got even worse after 08 with the meningitis. By 03 or so I was barely able to understand taxes at all anymore and I had excelled in that in school. We had always done separate taxes and had taken them to a place to have them checked or and had them efiled in the 90's. Sometime in the early 2000's, he got a notice that the IRS was questioning him taking the EITC. He didnt understand the form and hid it from me for over a year. Maybe 2 years. I filled out his taxes as normal, I filled out my taxes as normal in 01 which was my last year working and used both kids because it was going to be a nightmare tax hit. He was fine with it. I sent both our forms in but didnt notice that we got a notice back on his because he hid it. Fast forward. The next year...I had already started to forget things and he didnt give me his 1099 and never even thought about it. Several years went by...letters started coming in. Oh no! We went to someone but they were a scam. Wanted to charge us 3K and then we would do all the work, supposedly it would go away but we couldnt actually find everything they wanted. His employer wouldnt cooperate with giving us everything they wanted, we couldnt get other things they wanted either. Things like gas receipts for car expenses. Who keeps those things? Then even in 09 just after I got out of the hospital, he expected me to be able to do his taxes again. Ummm, I couldnt even add or subtract anything. I tried to get him to have Billy do it. He refused. I have no idea where anything is. I dont think he does either. I really dont care. Nothing is in his name. Its all in my name. We arent married. I keep telling him to call someone and try to get things worked on. He wants me to call. I keep telling them they wont talk to me because Im not him. He wont call. Oh well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 477296, member: 1514"] Even though Tony isnt autistic (that I know at least) he does have some difficult child traits. He is able to keep or find a job for the most part but it is in fairly low paying construction work. Most folks think construction workers make great livings. I dont know if its just mine or if its the economy or the type of work he does or our location but he doesnt get paid very well for working 30 years in the same occupation. He also has a very difficulty with reading comprehension which bothers him tons. He is allergic to making phone calls for himself about anything outside his circle of friends and immediate company he works for. He wont call a doctor, he wont call the power company, he wont call the phone company, anything like that. He wont do anything like math or forms. All that is what I am for. Well all that was well and good until I started getting sicker back in the early 2000's. It got even worse after 08 with the meningitis. By 03 or so I was barely able to understand taxes at all anymore and I had excelled in that in school. We had always done separate taxes and had taken them to a place to have them checked or and had them efiled in the 90's. Sometime in the early 2000's, he got a notice that the IRS was questioning him taking the EITC. He didnt understand the form and hid it from me for over a year. Maybe 2 years. I filled out his taxes as normal, I filled out my taxes as normal in 01 which was my last year working and used both kids because it was going to be a nightmare tax hit. He was fine with it. I sent both our forms in but didnt notice that we got a notice back on his because he hid it. Fast forward. The next year...I had already started to forget things and he didnt give me his 1099 and never even thought about it. Several years went by...letters started coming in. Oh no! We went to someone but they were a scam. Wanted to charge us 3K and then we would do all the work, supposedly it would go away but we couldnt actually find everything they wanted. His employer wouldnt cooperate with giving us everything they wanted, we couldnt get other things they wanted either. Things like gas receipts for car expenses. Who keeps those things? Then even in 09 just after I got out of the hospital, he expected me to be able to do his taxes again. Ummm, I couldnt even add or subtract anything. I tried to get him to have Billy do it. He refused. I have no idea where anything is. I dont think he does either. I really dont care. Nothing is in his name. Its all in my name. We arent married. I keep telling him to call someone and try to get things worked on. He wants me to call. I keep telling them they wont talk to me because Im not him. He wont call. Oh well. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
A husband problem
Top