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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 477299"><p>How did you get him to stay and suffer the consequences with you? husband leaves!!!! He goes to a place that has internet, heat, toilet paper, ect... I get so mad at him when he finally comes in after midnight when the kids and I have been in a house without heat all day (in the middle of winter, ice 1/2 inch think on easy child 1's window). He doesn't tell me he is going to leave. He just goes. Or he doesn't come home after work. And he gets mad at me because I'm upset with him.</p><p> </p><p>Its not his problem if the kids don't have diapers or wake up crying at night because they are cold. Its mine because I'm the one that cares. I guess I am enabling him because I don't want the kids to suffer. And I feel the need to keep the basics on because of court stuff. (I'm court ordered to check my e-mail once a day since X can't contact me by phone.) I'm the one that goes to all the community programs, apply for food stamps, medicaid, ect...</p><p></p><p>I think I will confiscate all the electronic devices in the house. mother in law will have husband's two laptops, his ipod, his phone, his two computers, the kids gamecube, and my laptop. He and mother in law can work on one laptop to find jobs (together). He wants movies and computer games he will have to satisfy mother in law's expectation of how he should work (and she does not enable). His smurfs and farmville are going to have a horrible harvest. This could get very ugly getting this stuff away from him. </p><p> </p><p>husband will steal money/debit/food cards from my diaper bag. He has this ability of just glancing in your general direction while you are using the card and he knows what the pin number is. He hides what he buys from me. (He is horrible about hiding things from me. I always find out.) He lies to me about the movies. He doesn't admit the problem is as bad as it is if he admits there is a problem at all. (He is busted though because mother in law knows how to track what he has been watching.) I don't think I'm going to find out the issue. I do think its probably many small issues that he isn't willing to admit to me that he has. </p><p></p><p>Lisa thank you for responding. I am going to have a huge fight on my hands. It really means a lot to me that you responded. mother in law gets here Nov. 16th. How did you get the electronics away from husband?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 477299"] How did you get him to stay and suffer the consequences with you? husband leaves!!!! He goes to a place that has internet, heat, toilet paper, ect... I get so mad at him when he finally comes in after midnight when the kids and I have been in a house without heat all day (in the middle of winter, ice 1/2 inch think on easy child 1's window). He doesn't tell me he is going to leave. He just goes. Or he doesn't come home after work. And he gets mad at me because I'm upset with him. Its not his problem if the kids don't have diapers or wake up crying at night because they are cold. Its mine because I'm the one that cares. I guess I am enabling him because I don't want the kids to suffer. And I feel the need to keep the basics on because of court stuff. (I'm court ordered to check my e-mail once a day since X can't contact me by phone.) I'm the one that goes to all the community programs, apply for food stamps, medicaid, ect... I think I will confiscate all the electronic devices in the house. mother in law will have husband's two laptops, his ipod, his phone, his two computers, the kids gamecube, and my laptop. He and mother in law can work on one laptop to find jobs (together). He wants movies and computer games he will have to satisfy mother in law's expectation of how he should work (and she does not enable). His smurfs and farmville are going to have a horrible harvest. This could get very ugly getting this stuff away from him. husband will steal money/debit/food cards from my diaper bag. He has this ability of just glancing in your general direction while you are using the card and he knows what the pin number is. He hides what he buys from me. (He is horrible about hiding things from me. I always find out.) He lies to me about the movies. He doesn't admit the problem is as bad as it is if he admits there is a problem at all. (He is busted though because mother in law knows how to track what he has been watching.) I don't think I'm going to find out the issue. I do think its probably many small issues that he isn't willing to admit to me that he has. Lisa thank you for responding. I am going to have a huge fight on my hands. It really means a lot to me that you responded. mother in law gets here Nov. 16th. How did you get the electronics away from husband? [/QUOTE]
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