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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 477454" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Oh wow Liahona.....I know I am the worst at just saying what I feel.....but the guy is stealing from you!! He is neglecting your family by leaving you at home with-out elec or diapers. This guy is bad news. It is not just that he is an Aspie - he is also not being a good person let alone a husband. This is far deeper than taking away electronics....I am afraid. I think you should separate from him until he can get some help.</p><p></p><p>I know this is not what the courts want right now - nor is it something you are morally able to do - but I do think you need to see the reality of the situation. This man is somewhat of an abuser, only in a different way than X. He is not respecting you, or taking care of your family - and in addition he is lying and stealing. This is not what a marriage should be based on.</p><p></p><p>I would get your ducks in a row for all of your court stuff, and then reassess this entire situation. You would be the same with or without him it seems - and your kids do not need to grow up seeing a male role model that takes advantage of their mom the way he is. At the very least he needs to get some help...........</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry - you have SO much on your shoulders it is not fair. <<<HUGS>>></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 477454, member: 3301"] Oh wow Liahona.....I know I am the worst at just saying what I feel.....but the guy is stealing from you!! He is neglecting your family by leaving you at home with-out elec or diapers. This guy is bad news. It is not just that he is an Aspie - he is also not being a good person let alone a husband. This is far deeper than taking away electronics....I am afraid. I think you should separate from him until he can get some help. I know this is not what the courts want right now - nor is it something you are morally able to do - but I do think you need to see the reality of the situation. This man is somewhat of an abuser, only in a different way than X. He is not respecting you, or taking care of your family - and in addition he is lying and stealing. This is not what a marriage should be based on. I would get your ducks in a row for all of your court stuff, and then reassess this entire situation. You would be the same with or without him it seems - and your kids do not need to grow up seeing a male role model that takes advantage of their mom the way he is. At the very least he needs to get some help........... I am so sorry - you have SO much on your shoulders it is not fair. <<<HUGS>>> [/QUOTE]
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