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A "mother" thorn in my side
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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 318322" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Entitled- oh, yeah! She has always been that way. And she lacks the ability (or at least she doesn't show it) to be able to empathize with others. And my bro, who is not her bio-son and only lived with her from 2yo-8yo part time, is EXACTLY like her without the panic attacks. At least I think he's pretty much out of the picture now.</p><p></p><p>I wish we had a relationship that would survive if she came to HI and lived with us. I know it wouldn't work though so I haven't brought it up- and she wouldn't do it anyway. I can survive the phone calls of panic I'll most likely get from her there, but it would still bother me if something happened to her after difficult child hasn't seen her for so long and we most likely would not be able to afford to come back here for a very long time, even to visit. And of course, I doubt she will come there to visit us. It will be that "I took difficult child out there and moved him so far away just to keep him away from her and I wouldn''t even let him see her before we went". difficult child is mature enough now though that he can see some of this himself. She wrote him directly saying she "could not" come up here to visit him. He just wrote her back and said he understood but I saw the hurt on his face when he told me about it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 318322, member: 3699"] Entitled- oh, yeah! She has always been that way. And she lacks the ability (or at least she doesn't show it) to be able to empathize with others. And my bro, who is not her bio-son and only lived with her from 2yo-8yo part time, is EXACTLY like her without the panic attacks. At least I think he's pretty much out of the picture now. I wish we had a relationship that would survive if she came to HI and lived with us. I know it wouldn't work though so I haven't brought it up- and she wouldn't do it anyway. I can survive the phone calls of panic I'll most likely get from her there, but it would still bother me if something happened to her after difficult child hasn't seen her for so long and we most likely would not be able to afford to come back here for a very long time, even to visit. And of course, I doubt she will come there to visit us. It will be that "I took difficult child out there and moved him so far away just to keep him away from her and I wouldn''t even let him see her before we went". difficult child is mature enough now though that he can see some of this himself. She wrote him directly saying she "could not" come up here to visit him. He just wrote her back and said he understood but I saw the hurt on his face when he told me about it. [/QUOTE]
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