any way he could be thinking he could just outright get the house without any money involved? This sounds so vicious to do to your own mother, esp since she offered housing and to care for a kid after having done her kid-raising time. Sorry you are going through this.... must be awful to have family go at each other like that. HUGS, please care for yourself too.....
(edit: nevermind I missed a post you answered he is not the kind to take her assets... sorry)
