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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 638848" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Oh boy, I am sorry you have to deal with this on top of your difficult child feelings. Geez.</p><p></p><p>Well, perhaps others will have a different opinion, however, what I do is just walk away from that kind of stuff. I have no control over the choices others make, so if it were me, I would go to FB, find her comment and up in the right corner you can delete all posts by that person. I would not want to see it or feel it when there is nothing I can do. You told her how you feel, and she can make any choice she likes. You don't have to read about it though. </p><p></p><p>Reading that stuff can make you crazy Albatross, and yet I understand reading it to know that they are alive and okay. But the responses are not necessary for you to know about. (in my opinion) Don't take any of it personally. Boy, I know that's hard, but you're dealing with a difficult child here, they live in an alternative universe and trying to make sense, or figure it out or even just understand it is an exercise in futility and heartbreak. Avoid it. Don't let your mind wrap itself around stuff that has nothing to do with you. </p><p></p><p>Those homeless kids have to defend their position, to themselves and to anyone who will listen.........don't buy in to that nonsense. Let it go. Like so much other stuff we have to let go of, and I know it's a lot...........but letting go is the way out of all the suffering that is brought to our doorstep. There is nothing you can do about the choices anyone else makes. </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry you had to read all of that. Leave it behind you and go do something kind and fun and enjoyable..........don't let them mess with any more of your moments..........</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 638848, member: 13542"] Oh boy, I am sorry you have to deal with this on top of your difficult child feelings. Geez. Well, perhaps others will have a different opinion, however, what I do is just walk away from that kind of stuff. I have no control over the choices others make, so if it were me, I would go to FB, find her comment and up in the right corner you can delete all posts by that person. I would not want to see it or feel it when there is nothing I can do. You told her how you feel, and she can make any choice she likes. You don't have to read about it though. Reading that stuff can make you crazy Albatross, and yet I understand reading it to know that they are alive and okay. But the responses are not necessary for you to know about. (in my opinion) Don't take any of it personally. Boy, I know that's hard, but you're dealing with a difficult child here, they live in an alternative universe and trying to make sense, or figure it out or even just understand it is an exercise in futility and heartbreak. Avoid it. Don't let your mind wrap itself around stuff that has nothing to do with you. Those homeless kids have to defend their position, to themselves and to anyone who will listen.........don't buy in to that nonsense. Let it go. Like so much other stuff we have to let go of, and I know it's a lot...........but letting go is the way out of all the suffering that is brought to our doorstep. There is nothing you can do about the choices anyone else makes. I'm sorry you had to read all of that. Leave it behind you and go do something kind and fun and enjoyable..........don't let them mess with any more of your moments.......... [/QUOTE]
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