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A step backwards for him and me
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 740331" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>Thank you. I think what hit me was the dash of hope.... and we are back to where we were.. looking at his fb posts he is probably relapsing or close to it. But you are right I have no control over it at all. Nothing I can do. Time to get back to living my own life. The one thing kind of hanging me up is I really dont want him ruining our upcoming wonderful trip.... so I am thinking in what circumstances would we come back? If he died there would be no point to coming back early. If he was in jail he could wait to see us. Maybe if he was hospitalized. Othewise no....... ok so answered that question for myself. Now time to let it go. Hopefully I will talk to him before we leave.</p><p></p><p>But today we have some nice plans, going to a play and then meeting my daughter for dinner. I have to say Copa..... I feel for you because having another child who has it together really helps me a lot. It reminds me that my sons issues are not all due to me. I can’t take all the credit for my daughters success but I also cant take all the blame for my sons problems. She really helps me keep perspective and reminds me that yes I am a good mother!!</p><p></p><p>So changing the channel, back to living my life. What will be will be.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 740331, member: 15801"] Thank you. I think what hit me was the dash of hope.... and we are back to where we were.. looking at his fb posts he is probably relapsing or close to it. But you are right I have no control over it at all. Nothing I can do. Time to get back to living my own life. The one thing kind of hanging me up is I really dont want him ruining our upcoming wonderful trip.... so I am thinking in what circumstances would we come back? If he died there would be no point to coming back early. If he was in jail he could wait to see us. Maybe if he was hospitalized. Othewise no....... ok so answered that question for myself. Now time to let it go. Hopefully I will talk to him before we leave. But today we have some nice plans, going to a play and then meeting my daughter for dinner. I have to say Copa..... I feel for you because having another child who has it together really helps me a lot. It reminds me that my sons issues are not all due to me. I can’t take all the credit for my daughters success but I also cant take all the blame for my sons problems. She really helps me keep perspective and reminds me that yes I am a good mother!! So changing the channel, back to living my life. What will be will be. [/QUOTE]
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