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<blockquote data-quote="Misssy2" data-source="post: 745060" data-attributes="member: 23537"><p>Yea..but my son is not a drug addict...he came here because he was having a medical problem (seizures) and couldn't live alone...he just got well....and now I find myself being overly protective of him to the point it is disrupting my happiness....</p><p></p><p>He has grown in the year and 1/2 he has been here....he will keep growing....I just have to keep vigilant about enabling him (buying his food, cooking for him) and allowing him to pay almost nothing...I just stepped up that a notch...its 80 a week now and he pays cable.</p><p></p><p>So I'm proud of myself and of him....My older son was the drug addict that I struggled to kick out and I did...which resulted in him not talking to me for 3 years and it broke my heart....but HE IS SOBER NOW...and raising his family...So I guess some things just need to happen that way.</p><p></p><p>I'm ready to let go of the 29 year old...Im just struggling doing so....Alanon...I don't have time...I take care of my Dad with dmentia...and I own a house and was diagnosed with dementia myself in Aug...and my sister died in Sept...I am so busy that by the end of the day..there is no time for me...Im glad I found this board.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Misssy2, post: 745060, member: 23537"] Yea..but my son is not a drug addict...he came here because he was having a medical problem (seizures) and couldn't live alone...he just got well....and now I find myself being overly protective of him to the point it is disrupting my happiness.... He has grown in the year and 1/2 he has been here....he will keep growing....I just have to keep vigilant about enabling him (buying his food, cooking for him) and allowing him to pay almost nothing...I just stepped up that a notch...its 80 a week now and he pays cable. So I'm proud of myself and of him....My older son was the drug addict that I struggled to kick out and I did...which resulted in him not talking to me for 3 years and it broke my heart....but HE IS SOBER NOW...and raising his family...So I guess some things just need to happen that way. I'm ready to let go of the 29 year old...Im just struggling doing so....Alanon...I don't have time...I take care of my Dad with dmentia...and I own a house and was diagnosed with dementia myself in Aug...and my sister died in Sept...I am so busy that by the end of the day..there is no time for me...Im glad I found this board. [/QUOTE]
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