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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 65061" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Ally</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think in the end that he may have started to see my point, which I think is important. That its not all my fault and that she has to take responsibilty for her actions. </div></div></p><p></p><p>I just had to comment on this part of your post. I have been there before, and have learned, through MUCH practice, that 99% of the time it truly is a waste of time and precious energy to try to make third parties "see my point" when it comes to my children. I've had to let this go, time and time again. It hurts to know that someone is so... misinformed (brainwashed) when it comes to the information either my child or even my ex, has given them about me ... but I have no control over other people and how they view my situation. If I know I am right, and am continuting to do what I nkow is right, then I have to just stick with that and stop trying to convince other people that I am right and my child is wrong. </p><p></p><p>I know it is easier said than done, believe me, but please don't put yourself through this again. Taking verbal abuse for any length of time, and trying to speak rationally to an irrational person, will only drain you more.</p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 65061, member: 1157"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Ally</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think in the end that he may have started to see my point, which I think is important. That its not all my fault and that she has to take responsibilty for her actions. </div></div> I just had to comment on this part of your post. I have been there before, and have learned, through MUCH practice, that 99% of the time it truly is a waste of time and precious energy to try to make third parties "see my point" when it comes to my children. I've had to let this go, time and time again. It hurts to know that someone is so... misinformed (brainwashed) when it comes to the information either my child or even my ex, has given them about me ... but I have no control over other people and how they view my situation. If I know I am right, and am continuting to do what I nkow is right, then I have to just stick with that and stop trying to convince other people that I am right and my child is wrong. I know it is easier said than done, believe me, but please don't put yourself through this again. Taking verbal abuse for any length of time, and trying to speak rationally to an irrational person, will only drain you more. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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