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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 743828" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>We have also been very open with our kids about their birth and adoption stories. My daughter totally understands the abandonment issues adopted kids have but seems to have totally reconciled them for herself.... she figures her birthmother made a plan, and really tried to give her a good situation and better situation than she could. My son feels a lot of anger towards his bmom....I dont think so much for his adoption but because he feels a lot of his issues are due to genetics and he blames his birthmom for that and that somehow she should have known that she would be handing down bad genes.... I dont think it is totally logical really. I just think the issues hit different kids differently..... I know my son has always taken things very much to heart.... and I am not sure his abandonment issues are all related to adoption actually. They may be related just as much to girlfriends who broke up with him....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 743828, member: 15801"] We have also been very open with our kids about their birth and adoption stories. My daughter totally understands the abandonment issues adopted kids have but seems to have totally reconciled them for herself.... she figures her birthmother made a plan, and really tried to give her a good situation and better situation than she could. My son feels a lot of anger towards his bmom....I dont think so much for his adoption but because he feels a lot of his issues are due to genetics and he blames his birthmom for that and that somehow she should have known that she would be handing down bad genes.... I dont think it is totally logical really. I just think the issues hit different kids differently..... I know my son has always taken things very much to heart.... and I am not sure his abandonment issues are all related to adoption actually. They may be related just as much to girlfriends who broke up with him.... [/QUOTE]
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