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Abandonment? Trying to get in his head again...
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<blockquote data-quote="bluebell" data-source="post: 709205" data-attributes="member: 16761"><p>Please help me with this. We kicked my son out almost 6 weeks ago. He had somewhere to stay but that has dried up and things are getting dicey. My husband let my son in last night to do laundry with a specific time to be gone. I was against letting him in. We couldn't get him to leave. </p><p>Yes, he was being pleasant enough (actually asleep at the appointed time to leave), but he said he was dropping his TV and game station off at first. Then he hooks it up and starts updating something. When asked to leave, he takes the TV and PS4. So it seems to me he never intended to leave. </p><p>He threw a fit, called my husband names, accused us of stealing from him, slammed doors, left a pile of trash. Said he felt like we were treating him like a fugitive. His own family! That other people were allowed in 'his' house that aren't even family (my daughter's boyfriend). Family, family, family. He certainly knows what I value... </p><p>I feel like I've abandoned him. I know why in my head but I'm thinking of what is going on in his head again. It probably makes no sense why he can't stay - just for one night (he says)! He just doesn't get it. </p><p>I just need a few words of encouragement. That I'm not abandoning my adult son. This is his choice. Right?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bluebell, post: 709205, member: 16761"] Please help me with this. We kicked my son out almost 6 weeks ago. He had somewhere to stay but that has dried up and things are getting dicey. My husband let my son in last night to do laundry with a specific time to be gone. I was against letting him in. We couldn't get him to leave. Yes, he was being pleasant enough (actually asleep at the appointed time to leave), but he said he was dropping his TV and game station off at first. Then he hooks it up and starts updating something. When asked to leave, he takes the TV and PS4. So it seems to me he never intended to leave. He threw a fit, called my husband names, accused us of stealing from him, slammed doors, left a pile of trash. Said he felt like we were treating him like a fugitive. His own family! That other people were allowed in 'his' house that aren't even family (my daughter's boyfriend). Family, family, family. He certainly knows what I value... I feel like I've abandoned him. I know why in my head but I'm thinking of what is going on in his head again. It probably makes no sense why he can't stay - just for one night (he says)! He just doesn't get it. I just need a few words of encouragement. That I'm not abandoning my adult son. This is his choice. Right? [/QUOTE]
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