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Abandonment? Trying to get in his head again...
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 709498" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>My son blamed us too for all the injustices during his youth. How he had to do chores to earn an allowance and since he wouldn't do his chores no allowance and that's why he stole money from us. Our kids just do not want to accept any responsibility for the mess they have made of their own lives. It's much easier to blame the parents. There is nothing we can do to change their way of thinking. </p><p>They can be very convincing in their blame game to where we can start to question if we were good parents or not and this is a dangerous place to end up. Out kids will use this against us, once they find a weak spot they will exploit it.</p><p>I have been on the receiving end of my son screaming at the top of his lungs right to my face and also on the phone. At least with the phone you can hang up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 709498, member: 18516"] My son blamed us too for all the injustices during his youth. How he had to do chores to earn an allowance and since he wouldn't do his chores no allowance and that's why he stole money from us. Our kids just do not want to accept any responsibility for the mess they have made of their own lives. It's much easier to blame the parents. There is nothing we can do to change their way of thinking. They can be very convincing in their blame game to where we can start to question if we were good parents or not and this is a dangerous place to end up. Out kids will use this against us, once they find a weak spot they will exploit it. I have been on the receiving end of my son screaming at the top of his lungs right to my face and also on the phone. At least with the phone you can hang up. [/QUOTE]
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