Hi! The most important thing is to figure out what your child needs, not the diagnosis per se. There are many different non-drug ways to approach poor impulse control. Is he is therapy now? What types have you tried? There are only a few good therapists out there? What about recreational therapy and/or social skills groups?
Diet can be a big factor. It is good to try to eliminate artificial dyes, additives, fillers, etc.
You might also consider taking him to a homeopathic physician. Homeopathic remedies do not have the side effects of something like Concerta. www.homeopathic.org
