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Adoption has changed so much. I'm scared.
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 243691" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>I feel a little this way with difficult child 1. There's always that little twinge of fear when his bio mom comes up. </p><p> </p><p>Was thru that fear that the saying "when you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, its yours to keep; if it doesn't, it never was" took real meaning. </p><p> </p><p>If I denied him access to her, I <em>was </em>the bad guy. If I stood by him and loved him and supported him, celebrated his successes and wiped his tears when it didn't turn out, well, I was doing what mom's do for their children.</p><p> </p><p>What will be, will be. Our choice is <em>how</em> to be.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 243691, member: 1848"] I feel a little this way with difficult child 1. There's always that little twinge of fear when his bio mom comes up. Was thru that fear that the saying "when you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, its yours to keep; if it doesn't, it never was" took real meaning. If I denied him access to her, I [I]was [/I]the bad guy. If I stood by him and loved him and supported him, celebrated his successes and wiped his tears when it didn't turn out, well, I was doing what mom's do for their children. What will be, will be. Our choice is [I]how[/I] to be. [/QUOTE]
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