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Adoption has changed so much. I'm scared.
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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 243874" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">MWM,</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">I have heard from placement day how kt &/or wm are going to search for bio mom. wm, at one point, insisted I buy a dog & a car for when he goes to live with bio mom. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Our adoption is closed for obvious reasons ~ I'm reluctant to help kt & wm search for their bio parents. Not because of the obvious reasons but because bio mom especially could tear apart years & years of therapy & rebuilding of hurt & abuse the tweedles suffered in her hands.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">I'm hurt when kt or wm talk about dropping me when they turn 18 & going to live with bio mom. I'm devastated when I hear out of either of their mouths that anyone is a better mom than me. And I'm weary of doing my best to rebuild/create a family bond with my children. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">I so understand your feelings. I don't care if you are easy child or not. I'm in the same boat as my children get older ~ state their feelings in very hurtful ways. AND I am aware of the hurt they may suffer at the hands of bio mom once again. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Yup, I hear you loud & clear. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 243874, member: 393"] [SIZE=3][FONT=Comic Sans MS]MWM, I have heard from placement day how kt &/or wm are going to search for bio mom. wm, at one point, insisted I buy a dog & a car for when he goes to live with bio mom. Our adoption is closed for obvious reasons ~ I'm reluctant to help kt & wm search for their bio parents. Not because of the obvious reasons but because bio mom especially could tear apart years & years of therapy & rebuilding of hurt & abuse the tweedles suffered in her hands. I'm hurt when kt or wm talk about dropping me when they turn 18 & going to live with bio mom. I'm devastated when I hear out of either of their mouths that anyone is a better mom than me. And I'm weary of doing my best to rebuild/create a family bond with my children. I so understand your feelings. I don't care if you are easy child or not. I'm in the same boat as my children get older ~ state their feelings in very hurtful ways. AND I am aware of the hurt they may suffer at the hands of bio mom once again. Yup, I hear you loud & clear. [/FONT][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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