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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 761489" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>The money thing applies in my case and I’m too tired to think about it…but most if not all of the other cases I’m familiar with. They will show pseudo love if you give them stuff. It’s not real. And you will get hell or be abandoned if you refuse.</p><p></p><p>But this other thing you mentioned. Omg.</p><p>“Hope.” This word! I have hated it. Still a sensitive subject. I once heard a speech, likely by MLK, and the word was used and I almost collapsed. WTH?</p><p>I think I was in some sort of internal war. I had secretly started to lose hope. Yet, I was determined. Yet, I knew intellectually there was no hope. Yet, I was sure God would not allow such a thing. Not when someone put THIS much effort into something. Impossible. But…you can’t do the work for someone else. And brain damage…well.</p><p>I wish someone had slapped me and said “Come to your senses!”</p><p></p><p>I’m kind of praying again. I’m clawing my way back.</p><p></p><p>Thank you all for this difficult conversation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 761489, member: 4152"] The money thing applies in my case and I’m too tired to think about it…but most if not all of the other cases I’m familiar with. They will show pseudo love if you give them stuff. It’s not real. And you will get hell or be abandoned if you refuse. But this other thing you mentioned. Omg. “Hope.” This word! I have hated it. Still a sensitive subject. I once heard a speech, likely by MLK, and the word was used and I almost collapsed. WTH? I think I was in some sort of internal war. I had secretly started to lose hope. Yet, I was determined. Yet, I knew intellectually there was no hope. Yet, I was sure God would not allow such a thing. Not when someone put THIS much effort into something. Impossible. But…you can’t do the work for someone else. And brain damage…well. I wish someone had slapped me and said “Come to your senses!” I’m kind of praying again. I’m clawing my way back. Thank you all for this difficult conversation. [/QUOTE]
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