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<blockquote data-quote="marine daughter" data-source="post: 548703" data-attributes="member: 15139"><p>oh my gosh its not a good thing but im glad im not alone, i thought it was only me, my daughter will be 32 and four years ago she was doing coke, and i threw her out on the street, she literally had to wait in line to get food at a church and was living in houses no one was living in, I took her back when she said these guys were goiing to make her do prostitution,things turned about for a while, she had a great job, had God in her life, this past year every thing spirled downward again, she lost her job, she got three DUI's and she didnt learn even though she had a DUI and was not suppose to drive she would still take her car thinking she would not get caught, she lived with us (she had been saving her money to buy a place and I liked having her around when she was on the up and up),however, she never gave me a dime,she ate, washed her clothes and a warm place to live anyways, like i said just recently since march things went haywire, well I suspected her doing drugs again, this week she took all my change in my coffee cup and i found my credit cards under her bed, well I threw her butt out, (by the way she was on house arrest for being with two guys letting them drive her car and got pulled over, drugs where in the car, well she left i thought it was strange as so manytimes ive told her to get out but she just ignored me, well then i noticed my beautiful diamond ring was gone, which I had locked up in my closest,,yes i have a bed room in my house with a lock on my closet and then a safe in the locked closet because of her,,,then i realized my lap top that i had never used brand new was gone, as well as an I pad adapter from a new boise cd player i just purchased, i told her just tell me where you sold it so i can get it back and i wont be mad or press charges, well she denied it, so i called the police and i am having her arrested, she will be arrested for leaving the house while on house arrested and larceny. It was the hardest thing i ever had to do, but I felt i had to,,,now after reading what all the readers are going thru i know i did the right things, she does not live by my morales,she is 32 years, it will never stop and she has no respect for me as a parent, I do not have a life nor does my husband i sleep with our bedroom lock, lock things up, I want my life back, my life is not going to revolve around when the next crisis or **** she pulls happens,I should be ablel to leave my things where ever i want in my house and know it will be there in the morning,,,I wasnt brought up this way, my dad was a a marine for 21 years..we never set foot in our parents room..IM done, and if a friend of my was telling me this story and then said but i could nt her arrested i would say your crazy, the abuse will just continue. anyways they are puuting a warrant for her arrest, Im dealing with a very compasionate police officer and she text me and said i have no place to sleep im actually out on the street, well i didn't put her there she put herself there, she wanted to come home i told come on home the police are actually waiting for you and if you have no place to sleep call them up theyll give you a place to sleep, I have the support of my two other children and my husband, i havent told anyone elise in my family and when she does go to jail, i will have to pack up all her stuff and redo the bedrooom over for my own self,,,to move on and not see anyting that reminds me of her, as a still am her mother and it is a very hard thing to do,,,but the right thing,,,,,,,</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="marine daughter, post: 548703, member: 15139"] oh my gosh its not a good thing but im glad im not alone, i thought it was only me, my daughter will be 32 and four years ago she was doing coke, and i threw her out on the street, she literally had to wait in line to get food at a church and was living in houses no one was living in, I took her back when she said these guys were goiing to make her do prostitution,things turned about for a while, she had a great job, had God in her life, this past year every thing spirled downward again, she lost her job, she got three DUI's and she didnt learn even though she had a DUI and was not suppose to drive she would still take her car thinking she would not get caught, she lived with us (she had been saving her money to buy a place and I liked having her around when she was on the up and up),however, she never gave me a dime,she ate, washed her clothes and a warm place to live anyways, like i said just recently since march things went haywire, well I suspected her doing drugs again, this week she took all my change in my coffee cup and i found my credit cards under her bed, well I threw her butt out, (by the way she was on house arrest for being with two guys letting them drive her car and got pulled over, drugs where in the car, well she left i thought it was strange as so manytimes ive told her to get out but she just ignored me, well then i noticed my beautiful diamond ring was gone, which I had locked up in my closest,,yes i have a bed room in my house with a lock on my closet and then a safe in the locked closet because of her,,,then i realized my lap top that i had never used brand new was gone, as well as an I pad adapter from a new boise cd player i just purchased, i told her just tell me where you sold it so i can get it back and i wont be mad or press charges, well she denied it, so i called the police and i am having her arrested, she will be arrested for leaving the house while on house arrested and larceny. It was the hardest thing i ever had to do, but I felt i had to,,,now after reading what all the readers are going thru i know i did the right things, she does not live by my morales,she is 32 years, it will never stop and she has no respect for me as a parent, I do not have a life nor does my husband i sleep with our bedroom lock, lock things up, I want my life back, my life is not going to revolve around when the next crisis or **** she pulls happens,I should be ablel to leave my things where ever i want in my house and know it will be there in the morning,,,I wasnt brought up this way, my dad was a a marine for 21 years..we never set foot in our parents room..IM done, and if a friend of my was telling me this story and then said but i could nt her arrested i would say your crazy, the abuse will just continue. anyways they are puuting a warrant for her arrest, Im dealing with a very compasionate police officer and she text me and said i have no place to sleep im actually out on the street, well i didn't put her there she put herself there, she wanted to come home i told come on home the police are actually waiting for you and if you have no place to sleep call them up theyll give you a place to sleep, I have the support of my two other children and my husband, i havent told anyone elise in my family and when she does go to jail, i will have to pack up all her stuff and redo the bedrooom over for my own self,,,to move on and not see anyting that reminds me of her, as a still am her mother and it is a very hard thing to do,,,but the right thing,,,,,,, [/QUOTE]
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