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<blockquote data-quote="rush" data-source="post: 633527" data-attributes="member: 16988"><p>Since she quit her last job, she ran off to another state, AGAIN, to live with a guy who still lived with his mother. I told her it was a mistake but didn't try to stop her. The part that really ticked me off was she had just gotten a new job! It would have been the best job she has ever had. She was supposed to start on Aug 4. She called them and told them she wasn't going to take the job because she was moving. So instead of the job, she went to this guys house, some 300 miles away. I knew it wouldn't work for her there, and sure enough, 12 days later she was back here. They kicked her out, just as the guy in Kansas did last year when she moved out there. The difference this time was we didn't rescue her financially. I told her if she did this again, she was on her own. She gets herself down there, and if it doesn't work, she gets herself back. They paid her way there, and they paid her way back. So here we are again.</p><p></p><p>She is still disrespectful, eats all the food in the house, and doesn't lift a finger to help out. She will eat and leave her dirty dishes laying wherever she is. She is a total slob. I have posted rules of the house but she ignores them. I gave her a little money for gas to go look for a job. She went job hunting, she said, but goes wherever else she wants the rest of the time, using up the job hunting gas. I have had it!</p><p></p><p>She definitely needs to go back to her therapist. I can suggest she call him and make an appointment, but I cannot make her go, just as I cannot make her take her medications.</p><p></p><p>I know what I need to do. It is just so hard to do it. I have to kick her out. She will be 20 in about a week, and its time for her to meet the world on her own. My husband is no help at all. He won't have anything to do with her. I can't say as I blame him. ( She called the cops on him one night. She told them he was beating her. He was asleep in his recliner. There was nothing going on at all. She also took our credit card out of the mail and went shopping.) So I am giving her a deadline to get out, and praying I have the courage to stick to it. I hate that it has come to this, but I see no other way.</p><p></p><p>As always, thanks for reading and your support!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rush, post: 633527, member: 16988"] Since she quit her last job, she ran off to another state, AGAIN, to live with a guy who still lived with his mother. I told her it was a mistake but didn't try to stop her. The part that really ticked me off was she had just gotten a new job! It would have been the best job she has ever had. She was supposed to start on Aug 4. She called them and told them she wasn't going to take the job because she was moving. So instead of the job, she went to this guys house, some 300 miles away. I knew it wouldn't work for her there, and sure enough, 12 days later she was back here. They kicked her out, just as the guy in Kansas did last year when she moved out there. The difference this time was we didn't rescue her financially. I told her if she did this again, she was on her own. She gets herself down there, and if it doesn't work, she gets herself back. They paid her way there, and they paid her way back. So here we are again. She is still disrespectful, eats all the food in the house, and doesn't lift a finger to help out. She will eat and leave her dirty dishes laying wherever she is. She is a total slob. I have posted rules of the house but she ignores them. I gave her a little money for gas to go look for a job. She went job hunting, she said, but goes wherever else she wants the rest of the time, using up the job hunting gas. I have had it! She definitely needs to go back to her therapist. I can suggest she call him and make an appointment, but I cannot make her go, just as I cannot make her take her medications. I know what I need to do. It is just so hard to do it. I have to kick her out. She will be 20 in about a week, and its time for her to meet the world on her own. My husband is no help at all. He won't have anything to do with her. I can't say as I blame him. ( She called the cops on him one night. She told them he was beating her. He was asleep in his recliner. There was nothing going on at all. She also took our credit card out of the mail and went shopping.) So I am giving her a deadline to get out, and praying I have the courage to stick to it. I hate that it has come to this, but I see no other way. As always, thanks for reading and your support! [/QUOTE]
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