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<blockquote data-quote="round &amp; round we go" data-source="post: 443976" data-attributes="member: 12315"><p>I have been thinking about weather I should or shoudn't let her come back home. I go from one minute not wanting the drama back in my home to not being able to just let her go.....it's truely like being on an emotional roller coaster. I do know that she will not come back into the house the same as she went out. Sleeping until late afternoon, eating, texting on her cell phone (no I do not pay for her phone, she will babysit to get just enough money to keep it on). If she can not find any friends to hang out with then she will simply go back to sleep or sit on the sofa, listening to her headphones & texting.....hardly ever helps with any cleaning, washing clothes etc. Refused to bathe on a regular basis but always managed to keep her hair washed and styled and her make up on. ...If I allow her back, there will be some strict rules and she can follow them or I will report her to probation ( she will be on probation until she finishes school which is court ordered and I am quite sure that will last until at least she is 18 or longer) As for hanging with her friends, don't see that happening as most of them have washed their hands of her and her ways. Like I said I change my mind about allowing her back hundreds of times a day. Seems either way I go,,,,their will be no winners. </p><p></p><p>As for the room, I managed to sort clean clothes from the dirty ones and sorting through the ''hoochie'' outfits while I was doing it(those were thrown away). Thats as far as I have gotten but plan on working on it a little at a time. I had to take my oldest daughter for her ultrasound.....it's gonna be a girl : ). Guess there is always a little sunshine in every cloudy day if we look hard enough.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="round & round we go, post: 443976, member: 12315"] I have been thinking about weather I should or shoudn't let her come back home. I go from one minute not wanting the drama back in my home to not being able to just let her go.....it's truely like being on an emotional roller coaster. I do know that she will not come back into the house the same as she went out. Sleeping until late afternoon, eating, texting on her cell phone (no I do not pay for her phone, she will babysit to get just enough money to keep it on). If she can not find any friends to hang out with then she will simply go back to sleep or sit on the sofa, listening to her headphones & texting.....hardly ever helps with any cleaning, washing clothes etc. Refused to bathe on a regular basis but always managed to keep her hair washed and styled and her make up on. ...If I allow her back, there will be some strict rules and she can follow them or I will report her to probation ( she will be on probation until she finishes school which is court ordered and I am quite sure that will last until at least she is 18 or longer) As for hanging with her friends, don't see that happening as most of them have washed their hands of her and her ways. Like I said I change my mind about allowing her back hundreds of times a day. Seems either way I go,,,,their will be no winners. As for the room, I managed to sort clean clothes from the dirty ones and sorting through the ''hoochie'' outfits while I was doing it(those were thrown away). Thats as far as I have gotten but plan on working on it a little at a time. I had to take my oldest daughter for her ultrasound.....it's gonna be a girl : ). Guess there is always a little sunshine in every cloudy day if we look hard enough. [/QUOTE]
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