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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 630317" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Why do you want to contact him? You can't fix him either.</p><p></p><p>Also, he may not have had such a bad family. Our difficult children probably tell everyone how terrible we are. That doesn't make it true.</p><p></p><p>Sounds like he's on drugs or very sick maybe due to drugs. Do you really want to deal with that? He will play you, like your son does, and probably accept money, a bed, comfort, etc. Why ask for another difficult child to replace your son? There is nothing you can do for him.</p><p></p><p>I'd seriously leave it be and get off the "fix him" train. I say that with gentleness <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 630317, member: 1550"] Why do you want to contact him? You can't fix him either. Also, he may not have had such a bad family. Our difficult children probably tell everyone how terrible we are. That doesn't make it true. Sounds like he's on drugs or very sick maybe due to drugs. Do you really want to deal with that? He will play you, like your son does, and probably accept money, a bed, comfort, etc. Why ask for another difficult child to replace your son? There is nothing you can do for him. I'd seriously leave it be and get off the "fix him" train. I say that with gentleness :) [/QUOTE]
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