Hi Leafy;
I have been deep in my own back yard lately and have not had the time to be on here lately.
This post has me very emotional for a number of reasons. First the recognition that “It is what it is”, you are not enabling and are in a loving and kind frame of mind. That is a supremely challenging position to be in. When they observe us and engage with us I often wonder what they are thinking.
This has been a long haul Leafy. My heart is with you.