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<blockquote data-quote="crazymama30" data-source="post: 231109" data-attributes="member: 3184"><p>yep, loth and marcie and the others said it well. Do things for you. See a therapist. Do you need medications? I have been where you are, and I have started giving husband things to do. He cannot seem to figure out what needs done unless we have no clean dishes, or something that obvious. My husband cannot work, so he can do laundry and dishes and fix the cars. He has chronic pain and some of these things hurt him, but his pain will be tenfold if I lose it and lose my job and he loses his insurance. </p><p> </p><p>If you want to save your marriage go to marriage counseling, if not maybe you should consider a trial separation? If difficult child wants to stay, let him stay. If the school calls you tell them difficult child lives with husband. difficult child may have to fail, it may be time to let natural consequences take over. If you pay his cell phone bill, or any extras for him, I would disconnect it. Same for husband. Let him pay for his own. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs, and I hope you can figure out what you want. It always seems so cut and dried in print, but in real life it never is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="crazymama30, post: 231109, member: 3184"] yep, loth and marcie and the others said it well. Do things for you. See a therapist. Do you need medications? I have been where you are, and I have started giving husband things to do. He cannot seem to figure out what needs done unless we have no clean dishes, or something that obvious. My husband cannot work, so he can do laundry and dishes and fix the cars. He has chronic pain and some of these things hurt him, but his pain will be tenfold if I lose it and lose my job and he loses his insurance. If you want to save your marriage go to marriage counseling, if not maybe you should consider a trial separation? If difficult child wants to stay, let him stay. If the school calls you tell them difficult child lives with husband. difficult child may have to fail, it may be time to let natural consequences take over. If you pay his cell phone bill, or any extras for him, I would disconnect it. Same for husband. Let him pay for his own. Hugs, and I hope you can figure out what you want. It always seems so cut and dried in print, but in real life it never is. [/QUOTE]
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