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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 231116" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">{{KJS}} Many MANY hugs being sent to you. You certainly deserve a hug!</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">I also agree with what Marcie said. You need to start with YOU instead of waiting for them to change when it's apparent they won't. After all, why would they change how they live and do things when they know that you are taking care of it all? </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">Take a step back and think about what you need to do in order to acquire some inner peace and then find a counselor to help sort through it all and make it happen for YOU.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">If the house crumbles around you, so be it. If difficult child has to fail in order to learn a lesson, so be it. It won't be the end of the world. It's more important that you get the help and sleep you need so that you are healthy and happy. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">The worst thing in the world would not be for you to leave H and let him keep difficult child so you can regroup. Just throwing it out there. You may need to get away from them while you begin to care for yourself. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">You deserve to be with people who love and appreciate you, hug you and work beside you. You are a special person, we're all special in our own way and deserve to be treated with respect. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">Please try and let the guilt of your outburst roll off your back. Obviously, you needed to explode and you know what? At 14, I doubt very much that you sticking up for yourself (rightfully so) is going to leave difficult child with any lasting scars. He should understand that the way you are treated in your home [that you work very hard to pay for and maintain] has been very wrong for very long.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">Sending more hugs. I hope you use the inner strength we all know you possess to get yourself in to see a good counselor who specializes in women's issues and family dynamics. </span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 231116, member: 2211"] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]{{KJS}} Many MANY hugs being sent to you. You certainly deserve a hug![/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]I also agree with what Marcie said. You need to start with YOU instead of waiting for them to change when it's apparent they won't. After all, why would they change how they live and do things when they know that you are taking care of it all? [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]Take a step back and think about what you need to do in order to acquire some inner peace and then find a counselor to help sort through it all and make it happen for YOU.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]If the house crumbles around you, so be it. If difficult child has to fail in order to learn a lesson, so be it. It won't be the end of the world. It's more important that you get the help and sleep you need so that you are healthy and happy. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]The worst thing in the world would not be for you to leave H and let him keep difficult child so you can regroup. Just throwing it out there. You may need to get away from them while you begin to care for yourself. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]You deserve to be with people who love and appreciate you, hug you and work beside you. You are a special person, we're all special in our own way and deserve to be treated with respect. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]Please try and let the guilt of your outburst roll off your back. Obviously, you needed to explode and you know what? At 14, I doubt very much that you sticking up for yourself (rightfully so) is going to leave difficult child with any lasting scars. He should understand that the way you are treated in your home [that you work very hard to pay for and maintain] has been very wrong for very long.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]Sending more hugs. I hope you use the inner strength we all know you possess to get yourself in to see a good counselor who specializes in women's issues and family dynamics. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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