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<blockquote data-quote="Lothlorien" data-source="post: 231184" data-attributes="member: 1024"><p>Thing is....things will fall apart for them, but will they really fall apart for you? If he fails, is it really your fault? Tell husband that he has to step in or let him take the blame. Everything should not be left for you. You shouldn't have to work two jobs, do laundry, do all school meetings, take kids to docs, clean house and grocery shop. ESPECIALLY, when your husband works one job 7 to 3??? Huh? Give him a list of stuff. If he doesn't grocery shop, then he goes hungry. If he doesn't wash his clothes, then he'll have to wear dirty clothes. </p><p> </p><p>You have to let them figure things out. You aren't doing them or you any favors by doing everything yourself. You are exhausted, angry and bitter about it and it's not teaching them to do things for themselves. </p><p> </p><p>Would that work in business? Micromanaging everything? Employees get paid for doing nothing because boss does everything, because boss feels that everyone else is incompetent or too lazy? It's enough to give boss a heart attack and then what? Business goes to pot because no one knows what to do. Don't give yourself a heart attack.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lothlorien, post: 231184, member: 1024"] Thing is....things will fall apart for them, but will they really fall apart for you? If he fails, is it really your fault? Tell husband that he has to step in or let him take the blame. Everything should not be left for you. You shouldn't have to work two jobs, do laundry, do all school meetings, take kids to docs, clean house and grocery shop. ESPECIALLY, when your husband works one job 7 to 3??? Huh? Give him a list of stuff. If he doesn't grocery shop, then he goes hungry. If he doesn't wash his clothes, then he'll have to wear dirty clothes. You have to let them figure things out. You aren't doing them or you any favors by doing everything yourself. You are exhausted, angry and bitter about it and it's not teaching them to do things for themselves. Would that work in business? Micromanaging everything? Employees get paid for doing nothing because boss does everything, because boss feels that everyone else is incompetent or too lazy? It's enough to give boss a heart attack and then what? Business goes to pot because no one knows what to do. Don't give yourself a heart attack. [/QUOTE]
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