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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 231272" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>Sometimes the world, our worlds fall apart when we think we are prepared. When we are not prepared. When we have wonderful husbands, when we don't. Sometimes when we are poor, or wealthy. Sometimes when we have easy child's who truly are perfect... or when we have G'sFG. </p><p>None of it matters. When we fall apart, we need to take a step back and figure out how to fix ourselves, whether that is alone or with the help of our family? </p><p>It is a hard step no matter how we do it. </p><p>No one has it any easier when they fall or break apart. </p><p>It just plain *****. It is painful, it is embarrassing, it is humbling. It is all of the things we think we are not. </p><p></p><p>We always have to be so strong as Mom's, so to admit we are capable of failing or breaking is so huge. </p><p></p><p>I sat in my very first therapist apt today, (all of my other ones have been for K) she looked at me and said, "I really can't believe you are alive and that you have waited so long to talk to someone." </p><p></p><p>I started sobbing... I basically have said F' you to everyone who has told me I needed to talk to someone for years. </p><p>Now as my life is crumbling around me. Well, we just have to do these things sometimes. </p><p>Please do something for yourself. Something positive, for you. </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 231272, member: 3155"] Sometimes the world, our worlds fall apart when we think we are prepared. When we are not prepared. When we have wonderful husbands, when we don't. Sometimes when we are poor, or wealthy. Sometimes when we have easy child's who truly are perfect... or when we have G'sFG. None of it matters. When we fall apart, we need to take a step back and figure out how to fix ourselves, whether that is alone or with the help of our family? It is a hard step no matter how we do it. No one has it any easier when they fall or break apart. It just plain *****. It is painful, it is embarrassing, it is humbling. It is all of the things we think we are not. We always have to be so strong as Mom's, so to admit we are capable of failing or breaking is so huge. I sat in my very first therapist apt today, (all of my other ones have been for K) she looked at me and said, "I really can't believe you are alive and that you have waited so long to talk to someone." I started sobbing... I basically have said F' you to everyone who has told me I needed to talk to someone for years. Now as my life is crumbling around me. Well, we just have to do these things sometimes. Please do something for yourself. Something positive, for you. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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