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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 678949" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Now you know. Is it a simple matter for us to choose a different feeling state, once we understand the underpinnings of the feeling states demanded, in response to every crisis of our lives, by the internalized abuser?</p><p></p><p>That is the damage inflicted today, Copa.</p><p></p><p>Those feelings.</p><p></p><p>Is it possible to choose another feeling.</p><p></p><p>Is it possible to examine the feeling state for validity <em>or value</em>.</p><p></p><p>Is it possible to see that the intensity of contempt in these feeling states is a measure of our strength.</p><p></p><p>That is how strong the condemnation dealt out be the abusive parent had to be, to stop us, Copa. To break us. And they did it and we remember it and we do it to ourselves first because we are protecting our children from the internal mother, who is so angry at what the kids (or the child, in your case) have done and are doing.</p><p></p><p>What would happen if you journaled about returning to bed.</p><p></p><p>Whose voice, Copa.</p><p></p><p>And why.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 678949, member: 17461"] Now you know. Is it a simple matter for us to choose a different feeling state, once we understand the underpinnings of the feeling states demanded, in response to every crisis of our lives, by the internalized abuser? That is the damage inflicted today, Copa. Those feelings. Is it possible to choose another feeling. Is it possible to examine the feeling state for validity [I]or value[/I]. Is it possible to see that the intensity of contempt in these feeling states is a measure of our strength. That is how strong the condemnation dealt out be the abusive parent had to be, to stop us, Copa. To break us. And they did it and we remember it and we do it to ourselves first because we are protecting our children from the internal mother, who is so angry at what the kids (or the child, in your case) have done and are doing. What would happen if you journaled about returning to bed. Whose voice, Copa. And why. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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